"Don& #39;t You" is about a person (the singer) who runs into a former love out of the blue -- someone who she still has feelings for. but her partner has moved on and has a new girlfriend/wife, but the singer still loves the partner (will use he/him pronouns for clarity)
the key to the song is in the title: "don& #39;t you." don& #39;t you is a shortened version of the phrase "don& #39;t you dare," which is said to another person to tell them not to do something, otherwise it will make the speaker angry or upset. ex) don& #39;t you dare slam that door!
so in the first half of the chorus, Taylor& #39;s character is singing to him: don& #39;t you (dare) be friendly and act nicely to me because "you don& #39;t know how much I feel I love you still." she still has feelings for him and him talking to her and being happy makes it worse.
but that& #39;s not the only use of "don& #39;t you" in the song because Taylor does the thing she does so well, which is to take a common phrase and twist it.
in the last two lines of the chorus, she turns "don& #39;t you (dare)" into "why don& #39;t you?" as in "why don& #39;t you love me anymore?" so she goes from an angry demand to a tragic plea for him to love her again.
this happens again in the bridge where she says she& #39;ll "go on with my life" and he will say "we& #39;re still friends" (the worst) but she doesn& #39;t want to pretend to be friends because to her, he& #39;s still the one she wants.
so anyways, Taylor& #39;s wordplay between "don& #39;t you (dare)" and "why don& #39;t you" is so effective here in showing the magnitude of the sadness, regret, and hurt of the singer and again shows why she& #39;s a master songwriter /end
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