In thinking about the lyrics, thoughts and emotions in Don& #39;t, I have a problem relating.

I can& #39;t recall being dumped and still wanting that person. I& #39;ve been offended, hurt, but I never pined for them after. I& #39;ve always let go.

The closest feeling I can remember was being

Unable to let go of this...non-relationship. but it wasn& #39;t the deep pining of love lost, bc we never had a definable relationship. It was a will-they-won& #39;t-they. How much of that yearning was for unfulfilled promises, of things left incomplete, and how much was love-adjacent?

I& #39;ll never know, and in time, I let that go too.

What is it like to mourn a real love? It must be like the song.