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How to create a mysterious personality
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Mystery is one of the most powerful social qualities anyone can develop.
Mystery draws attention, but most advice on how to be mysterious is either shallow or unactionable.
Here's how you do it the correct way.
Mystery draws attention, but most advice on how to be mysterious is either shallow or unactionable.
Here's how you do it the correct way.
â—Ź Follow Law 4
"Always say less than necessary"
The more you speak, the less they value you.
By saying less than necessary, you leave room for rumination and interpretation, making people wonder about you.
Always leave them with a question mark in their head about you.
"Always say less than necessary"
The more you speak, the less they value you.
By saying less than necessary, you leave room for rumination and interpretation, making people wonder about you.
Always leave them with a question mark in their head about you.
â—Ź Don't talk about yourself
No one cares about you nearly as much as they care about themselves.
When you talk a lot about yourself, they wait for their turn to speak and change the topic.
Direct the conversation towards the person you are talking with, while following Law 4.
No one cares about you nearly as much as they care about themselves.
When you talk a lot about yourself, they wait for their turn to speak and change the topic.
Direct the conversation towards the person you are talking with, while following Law 4.
â—Ź Excellence
Excellence is the foundation of being mysterious.
If you are quiet, but also excellent, people will be drawn towards you.
Make people envy your skills.
To be clear, you don’t have to be excellent at a hard skill, you can also have an excellent personality.
Excellence is the foundation of being mysterious.
If you are quiet, but also excellent, people will be drawn towards you.
Make people envy your skills.
To be clear, you don’t have to be excellent at a hard skill, you can also have an excellent personality.
â—Ź Expand your knowledge
Most of the social interactions are not interesting because of the lack of good topics.
If you scroll memes all day, you won't have anything interesting to talk about.
Your mystery fades away the moment you start discussing memes.
Most of the social interactions are not interesting because of the lack of good topics.
If you scroll memes all day, you won't have anything interesting to talk about.
Your mystery fades away the moment you start discussing memes.
You are what you consume and that says a lot more than you think.
Read interesting books, pick a skill, expand your knowledge, and you will have more interesting conversations.
Reduce the consumption of mainstream media.
Read interesting books, pick a skill, expand your knowledge, and you will have more interesting conversations.
Reduce the consumption of mainstream media.
â—Ź Pay attention to your tonality
People can feel the energy by your words.
Listen to yourself, they way you speak, pay attention to your tonality (Record your voice and listen to it).
Add more pauses, speak with different tones and try to inject more emotions in your words.
People can feel the energy by your words.
Listen to yourself, they way you speak, pay attention to your tonality (Record your voice and listen to it).
Add more pauses, speak with different tones and try to inject more emotions in your words.
Experiment all of these while having a conversation.
You can take your interactions to another level by paying attention to your use of pauses and the tonality you speak up with.
You can take your interactions to another level by paying attention to your use of pauses and the tonality you speak up with.
â—Ź Be unpredictable
Here's the truth, you look boring when people can predict your reaction.
Avoid it.
Do something that doesn't mesh with their perception of you.
(An unexpected comment, an unusual reaction, all work)
Here's the truth, you look boring when people can predict your reaction.
Avoid it.
Do something that doesn't mesh with their perception of you.
(An unexpected comment, an unusual reaction, all work)
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It's free and public as of now but it'll go private sooner.
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