hello this is a thread exposing @ericksray she blocked me but just pls rt /srs

tw // misgendering, dead naming

okay so ray and i were close moots, we used to interact basically all the time, and towards the end of march/beginning of april, i started to go by the name june and came out as genderfluid/agender

one day i posted this obviously joking and she had replied “VALERIE STOP”

when i told her i don’t go by valerie anymore she got “upset” per say and her first intention was to say that she’ll call me by the name on my birth certificate

when i told her my name is june, she continued to be disrespectful and say that june is a “female” name which was incredibly unnecessary. there was really no reason to bring up the fact that it’s a “female” name when i, myself, am not a female.

she then decided to text me personally, trying to defend the fact that she uses “miss ma’am” as a gender neutral term which was extremely ignorant. you can read the texts because i really don’t need to explain

she then begun to twist the situation on to her, so now apparently she’s the victim. read the texts below.

i don’t have anymore ss from that conversation and i deleted it and blocked her because i really didn’t want her negativity continuously defending her bad actions.

but to sum up the rest of what had happened, she continued saying how i take everything as a joke and she couldn’t tell that i wasn’t joking, when i clearly stated i wasn’t.

she also began to defend the fact that she brought up an unnecessary fact about june being a “female” name saying that she said it was based off her knowledge. which was weird because, i really didn’t ask for that, especially after stating that i am not female.

there really isn’t much i can say about this situation but if someone asks you to call them by a different name, whether they are or aren’t comfortable with their birth name, call them by the name they asked you too.

she was being completely ignorant and said that everything i stated has a tone of attack when i was just letting her know what she did wrong.

if she has the rest of our conversation she can post those screenshots, there isn’t much i can say now. just pls rt this for those who plan on following her (typically anyone who likes CNCO) thank you.

i don’t have all the screenshots because she deleted her comment, but i think those say as much that was needed

fuck you ray for not even giving a small fucking apology. next time listen

she deleted the comment, still refusing to apologize

here’s her half assed notes app apology, this thread “hurt” her but oh well