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Hey! I hate making posts like this, but it's gotten really annoying and tedious as of late. I'm really sick of people using he/him pronouns on me. I know it's primarily because of my voice, and if you're a friend in the vrc group I don't blame you for using it on me.
It's just, so tiring. I've tried going by she/they and still deal with misgendering every single day. I hate it so much when i'm compared to a dude. I hate that I was born one and that's why i'm transgender. I think i'll just use they/them for the main people so it's easier.
I hate being upset by something like misgendering, because I think of it as petty to be upset about it, but after trying my best (pronouns in ALL of my bios, except discord. I use roles instead) I'm so close to giving up on reinforcing it. I'm not mad at anybody who has
used he/him on me. But if you're someone who I DONT know and continually uses he/him on PURPOSE, i'll probably mute you/block you. But if you're part of the vrc group (you know who you are) I completely understand if you occasionally say he/him on accident, I know my voice is
super offputting considering I don't sound trans in the slightest.
Sorry for this thread, it's just been really messing with me lately.
Sorry for this thread, it's just been really messing with me lately.
