Hey! I hate making posts like this, but it& #39;s gotten really annoying and tedious as of late. I& #39;m really sick of people using he/him pronouns on me. I know it& #39;s primarily because of my voice, and if you& #39;re a friend in the vrc group I don& #39;t blame you for using it on me.

It& #39;s just, so tiring. I& #39;ve tried going by she/they and still deal with misgendering every single day. I hate it so much when i& #39;m compared to a dude. I hate that I was born one and that& #39;s why i& #39;m transgender. I think i& #39;ll just use they/them for the main people so it& #39;s easier.

I hate being upset by something like misgendering, because I think of it as petty to be upset about it, but after trying my best (pronouns in ALL of my bios, except discord. I use roles instead) I& #39;m so close to giving up on reinforcing it. I& #39;m not mad at anybody who has

used he/him on me. But if you& #39;re someone who I DONT know and continually uses he/him on PURPOSE, i& #39;ll probably mute you/block you. But if you& #39;re part of the vrc group (you know who you are) I completely understand if you occasionally say he/him on accident, I know my voice is

super offputting considering I don& #39;t sound trans in the slightest.

Sorry for this thread, it& #39;s just been really messing with me lately.