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How To Unveil Hidden Intentions.
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This thread is for those who want to learn to quickly assess peoples motives before investing in them.
Here are some effective ways I’ve had personal experience with.
For SERIOUS people only, if you don’t care about who you let into your life this is not for you.
Here we go
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Here are some effective ways I’ve had personal experience with.
For SERIOUS people only, if you don’t care about who you let into your life this is not for you.
Here we go
Deliberate avoidance of eye contact.
The eyes are the windows to the soul.
They expose a substantial amount of information on what a person is thinking
or how they’re feeling in any particular situation.
If someone is avoiding eye contact there are a couple possibilities.
The eyes are the windows to the soul.
They expose a substantial amount of information on what a person is thinking
or how they’re feeling in any particular situation.
If someone is avoiding eye contact there are a couple possibilities.
One possibility is they feel bad for trying to deceive you in one way or another.
It could be a small deception or a big one either way AVOID.
No one needs dishonesty creating confusion in their life.
Honesty is an integral part of any relationship.
It could be a small deception or a big one either way AVOID.
No one needs dishonesty creating confusion in their life.
Honesty is an integral part of any relationship.
The other possibility is they lack confidence/you intimidate them.
This can easily be determined through your intuition.
People who are that insecure rarely have the cunning to have an ulterior motive.
You can discern from there if they’re worth keeping in your life.
This can easily be determined through your intuition.
People who are that insecure rarely have the cunning to have an ulterior motive.
You can discern from there if they’re worth keeping in your life.
Next is your initial gut feeling.
The mistake most people make when it comes to reading intentions is ignoring their gut.
“They can’t possibly be THAT bad right?”
Yes they can.
This is how bullshit seeps into your life.
The mistake most people make when it comes to reading intentions is ignoring their gut.
“They can’t possibly be THAT bad right?”
Yes they can.
This is how bullshit seeps into your life.
You screw up the moment you convince yourself people can’t be destructive.
After that you’ll be justifying their behaviour the entire relationship.
Never squander that first opportunity to avoid the situation all together.
People have wasted YEARS this way.
After that you’ll be justifying their behaviour the entire relationship.
Never squander that first opportunity to avoid the situation all together.
People have wasted YEARS this way.
Moving on, watch their actions don’t listen to their words.
A person’s actions lead right to their priorities.
Most people are dead giveaways, escapism, money, emotional highs, validation, control, etc.
They’re almost always selfish.
A person’s actions lead right to their priorities.
Most people are dead giveaways, escapism, money, emotional highs, validation, control, etc.
They’re almost always selfish.
That doesn’t make them bad people, if anything it makes them predictable.
Predictability is what you want, you can use that as reassurance that there’s no malicious intent there.
If their actions don’t lead to something obvious there’s potential for foul play.
Predictability is what you want, you can use that as reassurance that there’s no malicious intent there.
If their actions don’t lead to something obvious there’s potential for foul play.
Pay attention to what excites them.
Test them if necessary.
If you can’t find any real priorities and you find they’re decreasing your quality of life,
your safest bet is to say farewell for a period of time.
Your life miraculously get better?
There’s your answer.
Test them if necessary.
If you can’t find any real priorities and you find they’re decreasing your quality of life,
your safest bet is to say farewell for a period of time.
Your life miraculously get better?
There’s your answer.
This final one usually isn’t necessary.
But if you’re desperate as a LAST resort wait until they’re under pressure and poke them a bit.
People tend to reveal all their dirty little secrets when they’re stressed,
all they need is a little push.
But if you’re desperate as a LAST resort wait until they’re under pressure and poke them a bit.
People tend to reveal all their dirty little secrets when they’re stressed,
all they need is a little push.
If their intentions aren’t the best the stress mixed in with the anger you incited should be enough.
They’ll spew out something completely out of character.
You’ll even catch a glimpse of regret.
They’ll reveal who they are and what they want if you pay close attention.
They’ll spew out something completely out of character.
You’ll even catch a glimpse of regret.
They’ll reveal who they are and what they want if you pay close attention.
If they do have good intentions and this backfires follow up with a sincere apology.
Show some empathy for how they are feeling (no one likes others playing with their emotions)
You’ll be forgiven and you’ll know with a good amount of certainty that they mean you no harm.
Show some empathy for how they are feeling (no one likes others playing with their emotions)
You’ll be forgiven and you’ll know with a good amount of certainty that they mean you no harm.
On a final note,
Someone doesn’t have to deliberately cause harm to sabotage your life.
Most barely understand themselves, let alone others.
Some even mean well but their actions say otherwise.
It’s a personal decision you make to tolerate people’s flaws.
Choose wisely.
Someone doesn’t have to deliberately cause harm to sabotage your life.
Most barely understand themselves, let alone others.
Some even mean well but their actions say otherwise.
It’s a personal decision you make to tolerate people’s flaws.
Choose wisely.
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