First of all

Understand that most women are used to unnecessary chatting and calling

That's their default

Chatting outside reason and with no reason is their Forte

Almost every man is trying to entertain her in her dms - all she knows is unnecessary yarns and caps

Even girls that don't like stupid yarns are still grateful for the attention so they will still text or call you with no aim

The only aim is for you to entertain them

That's how some girls will tell you they're boring but they expect you to be interesting

Cast them to the pits

So if you're a man who does none of these unnecessary talks for too long and all the time over the phone

You've set yourself apart from 80% of pussified men

So what's the next step

For readers of my book, follow it

It is the first step to making a woman understand that she doesn't own your time and she should be happy you even think about her

After y'all meet and eventually fuck, maintain it

Only contact to meet or to check up ONCE in a blue moon

1. Once a week for girls who stay close by
2. Once a month or 3 for girls who don't

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Most women won't disturb you

Do you know why?

They're used to silly and Needy men doing the chasing and disturbing

They aren't aggressive enough to start doing the disturbing if you won't do it

And that's wonderful

Of the women who disturb you

Reply them, but keep the chat within 3 to 5 messages back and forth

Don't give them any new topics to start

Just be simple if you can't meet with them at the moment

Something like this

If she tries continuing the chat, stop replying

Most girls will learn from here and they'll stop trying to have chats with you outside checking up or meeting up because they won't want to feel like they're begging you to chat

Now... Some girls will be very Needy and insecure and will continue to disturb you

They're bored

They're this

They're that

If it's a girl you're yet to fuck, feel no guilt as you ignore her stress.

Kilo Kan e pelu state of mind wan?

For girls you're fucking

Don't initiate contact more than 3 times a week

That 3 times is too much sef

To be more specific

She texts you on Monday, reply her

She texts Tuesday, don't

Till Wednesday

If she's upset, let it slide. Hit her up again when you Wan see am

If she's too upset to give you the time of day, perfect

She has canceled herself out

She is too self absorbed to fathom the fact that you have a life outside entertaining her

Both of you will not be long term compatible

She can go meet the men falling over themselves in her dms

You will not be one of them

Be fine with losing these girls if they won't enter your frame