Now you know why many young girls spend their early puberty days walking around with a forced slouch.

For some men, she's no longer a child the second she's no longer flat.

Many little girls stop playing at playgrounds earlier than their male friends. Not because they've matured and don't want to go on swings and slides anymore, but because their bodies now get them the wrong kind of attention. Sad kan.

And it goes on well into adulthood. Think about it ladies, how many of us adjust our posture the minute we realise we have to walk past a group of men...

And bear in mind, this situation include ladies who are dressed modestly.

Lengan panjang ke, jubah ke, tudung labuh ke, unless they're wearing a box, some women really cannot completely hide their curves.

The replies, QTs and DMs I'm receiving tells me that this is an experienced shared by many women, and some with long-lasting physical and psychological effects.

Know that no one should ever have to be embarrassed by or apologise for the body they've been blessed with.

To the many men who were shocked and horrified to learn about this, I don't blame you. What your reaction tells me is that you were probably not raised by or socialised with the type of people who behaved this way.

And now that you know, you can be our agents of change :)