We have all been there. Crushing on someone and wondering if the person feels the same about us or at least, trying to figure out the motive of someone that's always around us.
It's really a difficult task and unless you've got superhuman abilities to read minds, it's almost impossible to tell what someone is really thinking.
Sometimes, someone might like you but is too shy to tell you or might be scared you would reject their advances, so they usually communicate their feelings through nonverbal communication.
This can be quite frustrating if you are trying to build a friendship or relationship with a person but still not sure if the person likes you.

Fortunately for you, Big Daddy TEE (yes, that's me. Lol), is here to help you.
A great degree of our communication is usually nonverbal.
Many people can hide their true intentions through their choice of words, but it is very difficult to hide the nonverbal forms of communication such as body language and very subtle actions that give away our true intentions.
Nonverbal communication contains more truth than verbal communication. I've figured out 7 amazing (but subtle) ways you can know for sure if that guy or girl likes you (or not). Enjoy and thank me later 😉.
1. Having an open Body language

Having an open body language means that whenever the person is with you, there are no obstructions between the two of you. Common obstructions could be folded arms, phones, a drink etc.
When none of the above obstructions are noticeable, it means the person trusts you and is comfortable around you.

Someone that likes you will most likely seek you out from across a room and try to strike up a conversation
2. Asking More Personal Questions
When someone likes you or is interested in you, the person wants to know more about you than you have already made obvious or public. They will ask questions that might appear somewhat personal, of which the answer will reveal some things not much people are aware of.
Some of the questions will be to understand more of the the things you are passionate about.
For example, most people might comment on your new shade of lipstick or shoes and say "Nice lipstick/shoes", but someone that likes you will try to seek out what exactly made you wear that particular shade of lipstick/shoes.
This will reveal more about you to them and also give them an opportunity to spend a little more time with you due to the conversation that comes after.
3. Physical Contact
I know we live in a time where consent is a very important aspect our lives, but as human beings, physical contact has always been the most obvious way to show someone we like them or are interested in them. Most times, it happens without asking for any consent.
Someone that likes you will most likely prefer hugging you than just waving or a simple handshake. This is assuming the person is not shy.
It can beyond hugs to touching/holding of hands, knees, shoulders etc. If the chemistry is right, it won't come off as awkward so consent (or lack of it) won't matter.
Someone that likes you will do things like bring their chairs closer to you or change sitting positions so as to be closer to you. This can lead to more physical contact
The truth is that asking for consent in these situations kills off the spontaneity of it and makes it less impactful.

It's important to gauge the situation properly before going for it.
4. Pays Attention

Someone that likes you will pay great attention to you.

One of the major reasons they do this is to know how best to relate with you and stir their conversations with you.
They will remember some of the weirdest things about you and might reference them in future interactions. They will remember the smallest and seemingly unimportant details about you.
They want to gain your trust so will be paying attention to the details of your interactions so as to say the right things at the right time, get your the presents that will endear you more to them, know when and how to comfort you, etc.
Someone that does any of these really likes you and you might have to give the person a chance.
5. Nervousness

Even the most confident of us can get nervous whenever our crush is around.
I still remember the day I was eating in a restaurant back in school and my friend walked in with her friends. I happened to have a crush on one of her friends and as soon as they sat at my table, that was the end of the meal for me. I was so nervous that I lost my appetite.
Worst part was that I didn't even talk to her. I only focused on my friend. I still wish I talked to her then. LOL.

When someone likes you, most times, they are so nervous around you that the stutter and say the right things at the wrong times and vice versa.
This can happen to even the most confident of us. So don't sweat it if it happens to you. https://www.instagram.com/p/CL81B2BHRLT/ 
6. Frequent and Longer Eye Contact

Some people might call this "staring", but for some really shy people, this is the best way for them to shoot their shots at their crush 😂.

I am not saying it is bad, but it can come off as creepy though.
The important thing to note here is that the person likes you. It is now up to you to act on this information.
7. Copying You

Someone that likes you will probably start doing the things you do so as to have shared interests with you. This will mean better conversations and more time spent with you and also to impress you.
They could start going to the gym, reading a book, taking sports, listening to music similar to or same as yours.

So if you see anyone doing any of the above or a combinations of them, then they probably like you

I hope you found that useful.
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