THE OVERLY ROMANTIC DUDES

1st n foremost, there's nothing wrong with doing romantic gestures once in a while for your woman. But only from a position of power NOT weakness. The gestures should only be done as a reward for good behavior NOT to make her love you more or be loyal

Y'all wondering how could she cheat on this dude, to the point of actually having a baby on the side. This seemingly wonderful guy, financially secure & very caring, the guy Disney sells you on TV. Why why why? How could she...

Before we even look at the problem of overly romantic dudes, this case confirmed what we've always said. The greatest enemy of a woman is an enemy. Women compliment each other online & in person but deep down they hate each other. It's the friend who spilled the beans...

And if you're a red pilled man, you should know the secret to knowing who your woman truly is, is vetting her friends. She will be in character BUT not them. Anyways back to our OVERLY ROMANTIC DUDES...

Women only love soft, sensitive & overly romantic dudes on paper cause shit like that sounds good but in real life 9 times out of 10 it turns them off, its an ultimate pussy repellent! Women really don't appreciate what you do for them. They appreciate how you make them feel...

They prefer the excitement of toxic dudes "MR UNPREDICTABLE" cause those dudes keep them on the edge they never know what to expect with them. Romantic dudes aka "MR DEPENDABLE" are too predictable. Women say they want stability but in reality they want chaos...

These are emotional beings, meaning if you're planning on keeping her for a long time, you'll have to stimulate all kinds of emotions from her - anger, sadness, happiness - which is were the romantic dudes fail. They only focus on her HAPPINESS...

These are the kind of men who think that, if they spoil her recklessly, do more chores around the house, do homework with the kids, bring money home all the time, give her passwords to their phones, solve all her problems, that makes them the ideal man...

That doing all those things "a real man" should do, earns them some kind of equity & that should be some sort of insurance for getting pussy & lemme tell you this, you'll always be dissappointed if that is your belief...

Understand something. A woman doesn't owe you her loyalty & her self control. If you believe that a woman owes you her loyalty, self control & pussy because you did all that stuff, you'll be disappointed every single time....

There are plenty of guys who are cheated on & divorced who did exactly those things & asked themselves “How could she do that, after all I did for her?". "How could she go for the bad guy?", well that's cause you don't create that emotional trigger in her & that guy does...

You don't create that emotional trigger cause you believe that you're owed her loyalty cause you do all these great things. But you don't. You're still not that exciting. You're still not the man she wants to have sex with....

Internalize this, she doesn't appreciate what you do for her MORE than how you make her feel. So stop breaking the bank for a woman thinking she's going to be grateful or loyal because of it....

Women only care about how they feel. Which will explain why they'll attach themselves to the most toxic men who do nothing for them in real life, yet make them feel desired. Once you understand this mindset, you'll start putting your wallets away....

You'll start doing less for her. Because you really never had to do it in the 1st place. If you make a woman feel loved & wanted, she'll allow the bare minimum from you in every other aspect of life. She'll let you sit up in her house rent fee, eating up her food, playing PS4...

Women are driven by their fantasy of romance. But you should remember, you're a man, you're not here to appease a fantasy. You do things for her at your discretion, not cause you think it's going to keep her happy or loyal. Take care of yourself 1st. She should never come b4 you!