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hey.
please *stop* calling me a "femboy", it feels emasculating and makes me feel "less of a man" purely because my design happens to be androgynous. i get it, i do. but please understand that it feels very..bad when i get 5+ people who barely know me calling me a femboy due-
please *stop* calling me a "femboy", it feels emasculating and makes me feel "less of a man" purely because my design happens to be androgynous. i get it, i do. but please understand that it feels very..bad when i get 5+ people who barely know me calling me a femboy due-
to my models appearance and my voice. i've been really on edge recently and even considered a redesign because of it. i'm even really to the point i don't want *friends* to jokingly call me one. i know i've called myself one in the past: it was me internally emasculating myself-
to try and cope with these negative feelings instead of facing them head on. it's easier to kinda just "go with the flow" instead of stand my ground for me.
so i ask that the jokes/calling me that stops. please.
so i ask that the jokes/calling me that stops. please.
like you can jokingly call me a twink or whatever, but don't rub in how i;m "such a cute lil femboy" or whatever. i'm just vibing. thank you and have a nice night!
and i am absolutely *not* shaming others who use that term, i just PERSONALLY hate it directed towards me. if you're comfy with it? great! i'm glad <3 but i'm not.
also: things like "pretty" and "cute" etc are fine, it's the rubbing in that i'm "sooooo feminine" ( exaggerating but u get it ) is what gets me.
