hey.

please *stop* calling me a "femboy", it feels emasculating and makes me feel "less of a man" purely because my design happens to be androgynous. i get it, i do. but please understand that it feels very..bad when i get 5+ people who barely know me calling me a femboy due-

to my models appearance and my voice. i& #39;ve been really on edge recently and even considered a redesign because of it. i& #39;m even really to the point i don& #39;t want *friends* to jokingly call me one. i know i& #39;ve called myself one in the past: it was me internally emasculating myself-

to try and cope with these negative feelings instead of facing them head on. it& #39;s easier to kinda just "go with the flow" instead of stand my ground for me.

so i ask that the jokes/calling me that stops. please.

like you can jokingly call me a twink or whatever, but don& #39;t rub in how i;m "such a cute lil femboy" or whatever. i& #39;m just vibing. thank you and have a nice night!

and i am absolutely *not* shaming others who use that term, i just PERSONALLY hate it directed towards me. if you& #39;re comfy with it? great! i& #39;m glad <3 but i& #39;m not.

also: things like "pretty" and "cute" etc are fine, it& #39;s the rubbing in that i& #39;m "sooooo feminine" ( exaggerating but u get it ) is what gets me.