In a book club chat with Joshua, the msub author of Real Service, and I tell you what, discussions with people with years of experience is a breath of fresh air
"You& #39;re not going to be in some magical subby mindset all the time, that& #39;s not how it works!& #39; https://www.amazon.com/Real-Service-Epub-Joshua-Tenpenny-ebook/dp/B08L19QV18/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=real+service+joshua&qid=1619573916&sr=8-1&tag=dommechr-20">https://www.amazon.com/Real-Serv...
"You& #39;re not going to be in some magical subby mindset all the time, that& #39;s not how it works!& #39; https://www.amazon.com/Real-Service-Epub-Joshua-Tenpenny-ebook/dp/B08L19QV18/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=real+service+joshua&qid=1619573916&sr=8-1&tag=dommechr-20">https://www.amazon.com/Real-Serv...
There& #39;s no magical & #39;mindset& #39; in 24/7 D/s, no domly/subly nirvana they should feel. People wax lyrical about it, so when reality hits, they& #39;re confused & disappointed
There& #39;s not
What makes it work is navigating agreements & action *despite* not & #39;feeling& #39; submissive/dominant
There& #39;s not
What makes it work is navigating agreements & action *despite* not & #39;feeling& #39; submissive/dominant
That& #39;s not as sexy or romantic or mystical, but it& #39;s the truth
If you grumpily think & #39;oh FFS, I just sat down& #39; when your dom asks you to do something, that& #39;s normal, it& #39;s ok, truly
The question is: What do you DO then in the context of your agreed dynamic?
If you grumpily think & #39;oh FFS, I just sat down& #39; when your dom asks you to do something, that& #39;s normal, it& #39;s ok, truly
The question is: What do you DO then in the context of your agreed dynamic?