One time I confronted an acquaintance who was a big gym rat meat head for using “gay” in a pejorative manner and he said “I don’t mean gay in the good way like dudes in love and sucking each other’s dicks and shit I mean the bad way like it’s just fucking dumb”

To this day I am struck by the fact his example was dick sucking men not, say, lesbians

Oh the same guy once asked a gay couple holding hands “you guys gonna suck each other’s dicks later??” And they sheepishly said “yeeeeah” so he told them THATS AWESOME and gave them a double high five

Sweet himbo idiot

I also saw him stop in the middle of playing a show with his band because he saw someone wearing a nazi patch and he beat the absolute shit out of him