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We need to talk about Sexual Compatibility and how the church keeps demonizing that topic.
You encourage couples to get tested for HIV/AIDS, to ascertain whether their genotypes are compatible but you draw the line when sexual compatibility is the topic?
Is that not hypocrisy?
You encourage couples to get tested for HIV/AIDS, to ascertain whether their genotypes are compatible but you draw the line when sexual compatibility is the topic?
Is that not hypocrisy?
Sex is not a bad thing. God created it to be enjoyed not endured. But the reverse is the case for a lot of Christian couples.
The grounds the church expects you to operate when it comes to courting are unrealistic. Anyone can pretend to be what they’re not during that time.
The grounds the church expects you to operate when it comes to courting are unrealistic. Anyone can pretend to be what they’re not during that time.
You end up marrying someone you do not even know lol. But let me focus on sexual compatibility.
What can go wrong when you marry someone you’re not compatible with?
1. Contrasting sexual libidos: We all have different energies when it comes to sex. Someone could want it..
What can go wrong when you marry someone you’re not compatible with?
1. Contrasting sexual libidos: We all have different energies when it comes to sex. Someone could want it..
.. 7 times a day. Another is okay with just once in a week. When these two people are paired in a marriage, one is going to be left unhappy. One would have to make way for they other.
The person with low libido would have to ‘give in’ for the other person. I imagine that..
The person with low libido would have to ‘give in’ for the other person. I imagine that..
.. wouldn’t be sustainable for long.
The person with high libido will have to abstain. Keep himself/herself in check. Deprive themselves from what their body demands. Before you know it their eyes begin to wander towards other individuals for the release they seek.
The person with high libido will have to abstain. Keep himself/herself in check. Deprive themselves from what their body demands. Before you know it their eyes begin to wander towards other individuals for the release they seek.
2. Unrealistic penile lengths.
I know this may be harsh but it is what it is. What form of sexual pleasure will a woman derive from a penis the length of a pinky finger? Imagine that being the only sexual experience you ever have.
Or do we talk large penises?
I know this may be harsh but it is what it is. What form of sexual pleasure will a woman derive from a penis the length of a pinky finger? Imagine that being the only sexual experience you ever have.
Or do we talk large penises?
Imagine being in pain every single time you have sex because your husbands jumbo penis hurts your cervix time and time again.
You’re sore, unable to walk right, you bleed each time you have sex. It’s hell for you. But that’s who you’re married to. It’s your life now.
You’re sore, unable to walk right, you bleed each time you have sex. It’s hell for you. But that’s who you’re married to. It’s your life now.
3. Vaginismus: A lot of people including women don’t even know about this until they have sex for the first time.
Some women are extremely sensitive down there. So much so that the musculature of the lower third of their Vagina contracts involuntary during sex. The result?
Some women are extremely sensitive down there. So much so that the musculature of the lower third of their Vagina contracts involuntary during sex. The result?
Pain.
Every time you and your partner try to have sex, your vagina is blocked. If your partner isn’t sensitive to your feelings, you’ll be in for a world of pain.
Luckily this is treatable.
Every time you and your partner try to have sex, your vagina is blocked. If your partner isn’t sensitive to your feelings, you’ll be in for a world of pain.
Luckily this is treatable.
4. Weird/Dangerous sexual fantasies:
Have you all seen the fifty shades trilogy lol? That was a watered down version of just how crazy some people’s fantasies can be. You can’t blame them though: it’s what they are. Different energies, remember?
You won’t really know your..
Have you all seen the fifty shades trilogy lol? That was a watered down version of just how crazy some people’s fantasies can be. You can’t blame them though: it’s what they are. Different energies, remember?
You won’t really know your..
.. partner has all these weird fantasies till you get married.
Now what if you’re the type who isn’t into all that? What if you prefer it subtle? Sure, you can talk to them about it but in the end, one person would have to give something up for the other.
Is that sustainable?
Now what if you’re the type who isn’t into all that? What if you prefer it subtle? Sure, you can talk to them about it but in the end, one person would have to give something up for the other.
Is that sustainable?
5. Sexual Hygiene: Need I say more?
In conclusion: There are many more ways sexual incompatibility plays out. These are just the few I can list.
The idea that you’re not supposed to explore who you’re dating and seriously considering getting married to is silly in my opinion. You’ll only set yourself up.
The idea that you’re not supposed to explore who you’re dating and seriously considering getting married to is silly in my opinion. You’ll only set yourself up.
God won’t tell you your partner has a tiny dick.
God won’t tell you your partner likes to have sex 7 times a day.
You can’t pray away a lot of these things I’ve mentioned.
Make of this thread what you will. Wisdom is profitable to direct.
God won’t tell you your partner likes to have sex 7 times a day.
You can’t pray away a lot of these things I’ve mentioned.
Make of this thread what you will. Wisdom is profitable to direct.
