Stop being so needy!

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The biggest reason women leave, flake and ghost men,

Is because those men are too needy.

They're there for her at her every beck and call.

Thinking they can attract her through text.

On social media and dating sites.

It doesn't work that way.

You're projecting neediness.

Most women in this world could probably have their way with YOU in an instant if they so desired.

This is a problem.

You're too easy.

You're desperate for just a piece.

This is Anti-Seductive behavior.

It broadcasts that you have no options.

First and foremost,

Men with options aren't desperate.

They don't put hearts on every pic she posts on Facebook and Instagram.

They don't even care when a girl stops texting them.

They're calm and confident when they approach beautiful women,

They always have a sexy vibe.

Needy men are anxious and scared to approach.

Approach Anxiety used to be a really valid fear when we were cavemen.

Approaching the wrong woman could end your life,

And your bloodline.

It's become an outdated biological instinct.

One we must overcome.

So APPROACH!

The only way to get over Neediness is to learn to be non needy.

You do this by doing what scares you.

Needy people are focused on a specific outcome.

Non needy people don't care either way.

They are Outcome Independent:

Happy regardless of what happens.

This is why women respond sexually to confident men who aren't scared to approach them in public.

He's not needy.

He's confident enough to meet her,

And maybe even make her laugh.

He doesn't care if she rejects him.

That just makes it all the more fun for him.

Non needy men see a rejection as a win.

Because he's still making progress.

If life can shit all over you,

Yet you still maintain your frame and keep going,

Then others will be drawn to you because they want to know what that feels like.

You then become a social magnet.

So many haters have drawn others to me by testing me and trying to phase me.

Likewise,

I've met some awesome women due to some horrible approaches:

"Oh my God! That girl sounded like such a Bitch! Who are you?"

People want to feel that energy of being resilient to others.

It all starts with becoming non needy though.

Stop attaching expectations to everything.

Especially with women.

Most men are or become needy in other areas of their lives,

As a result of becoming needy over a lover.

Every sexless man misses that source of intimacy.

There's that philosophy of:

"If you love something,
Let it go."

This is essentially saying:

"Don't attach expectations to any particular outcome."

Or as I say:

If you want something,
Forget about it.

Literally.

Becoming attached will ruin it.

The only way to truly get what you want,

Is to take consistent action which will lead to its attainment.

Therefore,

You should expect lots of failures and rejections.

We can read all we want to,

But isn't it the experience you're after?

So then EXPERIENCE!

The more you do things that scare the shit out of you,

The less needy you will become.

And you'll Attract Her so much easier.

RT that first tweet!