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finn , @/CASINO_CRAZIES @/foolish_jr
this wasn’t going to be in the thread originally because part of me was scared i was in the wrong and the other part was still hurt over how he could’ve saw me but i’m adding this now as an extension
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finn , @/CASINO_CRAZIES @/foolish_jr
this wasn’t going to be in the thread originally because part of me was scared i was in the wrong and the other part was still hurt over how he could’ve saw me but i’m adding this now as an extension
i mentioned before that finn often trauma dumped on us and one of the things he mentioned was the fetishization of mlm. he often shitted on cishet girls and blamed them for it
the story that bothered me the most i mentioned briefly in my previous thread but i wanted to go into more detail on it
i remember one time i was talking about building a country for only women (in mc) and he turned it into a more of “i hate men i’m so quirky” type of thing (ss’s were taken on my phone of my computer so they’re not the best quality)
i don’t know if i took the joke too far or what but he said “i like men” and i responded with “ok?” as in something like “i didn’t ask”. he’s said stuff like that to me before when i’d say i love women and he’d say i didn’t ask so i thought it was all good
turns out he took it a different way and i didn’t know what to do. i felt it was hypocritical because he had said similar things to me. he also often asked us to use tone indicators but wouldn’t use them himself
in this ss it shows what i said and how he responded. i apologized but after that he left the server for a few days. i don’t have anymore ss’s because he deleted the server.
i always felt like when talking in the server he would see himself as the most important and need the most attention. it felt like we were always the ones helping him and i was scared to talk about anything personal on the server because of that
i think the thing that hurt me the most tho was him talking about me behind my back. the first thing was just something extremely petty about his art. i always wanted to make him feel included but it was hard to respond to every single message
the dm he sent to one of the other people in the server that was the most hurtful was one after the previous argument at the beginning of this thread. again i didn’t mean any harm to him or mlm and i’ve always supported him when he would talk about his problems with that stuff
i felt he took what i said and twisted it to a bigger issue. he often did that, not only to me but other too. in a way he made trauma a competition and would say things like “awww you don’t have trauma
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥺" title="Pleading face" aria-label="Emoji: Pleading face">you’re straight” (again, i don’t have the ss’s cause he delete the server)
implying that someone doesn’t have trauma for something so simple and making it competitive pissed me off. that’s when i started ignoring the server a lot more especially when finn was active
this is just my experience i had with him over the two-three weeks i knew him but i know other people have had a lot more serious things happen. like always, i ask you stay safe and if you feel uncomfortable with someone just leave.
