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of course she’s cis and white. you don’t have to ask
“my cishet boyfriend signs texts xoxo and sends me lesbian tiktoks. therefore, i am in a queer relationship”
𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐛𝐢 𝐯𝐢𝐬 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐲! (yes they’re both white)
if you’re dating a queer person, you’re dating a queer person*, and codifying your relationship in blatant defiance of the HUGE safety and privilege a cis/hetero *union* (you also liking girls is irrelevant to privilege here) is offensive and harmful. also embarrassing lol
i’m sorry that you feel insecure having a cishet boyfriend...please. process that another way. go to therapy, girl. you are both cis. together, you’re practicing heterosexuality. you’re treated that way by the government, social perception, healthcare...it just goes on.
even if they were both bi...that’s a straight cis RELATIONSHIP. writing this during a time when Black Lives Matter and trans rights are being constantly attacked is fucking embarrassing. talk about biphobia/being queer with a bf without centering yourself as a victim. jesus...
there’s a REASON WOC/trans bi women don’t write offensive, tone-deaf, narcissistic think pieces if they have cishet bfs. they experience actual marginalization. you didn’t “invite queerness into your bathroom”. that’s still a slur, by the way, lol. your bf gave you a haircut.
