Gonna weigh in on this with threatening child abuse is bad but so is outing queer people in places where they can be killed for being themselves.
As far as I'm concerned, that kid can eat fuckin shit and they may have gotten a queer person killed.

Assuming the person who outed them was a kid, obviously. Usually antis are, I'm not 100% in the know on this situation but fuck antis regardless, and fuck this person especially

Just going by the little bits and pieces I got on this shitsite
But yeah no antis don't really deserve to be viewed from a lens of them being this way because of abuse, because well, their actions are harmful no matter what the cause.

I REALLY don't think being empathetic towards antis is a good move right now in my humble but jaded opinion
Neither is giving that to the proshippers who are threatening kids or being general scumbags. Fuck both groups

Anyway those are my jumbled up thoughts on current shipping discourse
I will now go to therapy

If anything in this thread is worded poorly or anyone wants clarification (it's a mess) don't hesitate to let me know
What I'm trying to get at is we need to have more nuanced discussions regarding things like this without weirdly wording things in a way that gives off an-

Appearance of compassion for people doing awful things. We need to address proship and anti ship shit from a very nuanced perspective that doesn't end up being "abuse can beget abuse" and not acknowledging personal responsibility still being very important