Dear nigerians I need your help on what to do. Last year January, I started talking to a girl on Instagram. At the time I was living in Germany. As a matter of fact, I lived in Germany for 7 years without returning to Nigeria. @segalink @PoliceNG

She told me how she used to work in Central Bank in 2013 after she graduated from Abuja University and met the man she later married and they had twins together. The husband stole money from the bank and that was why she had to separate from him and that since then,

it's been difficult for her to get a job.
I told her not to worry that I'll adopt the kids and marry her so that she can secure her papers and then we move to Germany or relocate to Canada, She agreed. The dating continued last year June she asked me for money for the first time

She told me she needed 300k to file for the divorce since we can't marry if she's not divorced. I gave her the money. October last year, I came back to Nigeria for the first time after 7 years and that was the first time we saw face to face.

She offered me to live in her apartment and I agreed but when I got there, seeing the condition of her home, I decided we go lodge in a hotel. So on our way to the hotel, we passed through zone 4 and I decided to change some money so that I can have naira.

I gave 250k after I got naira. She said thank you but.... I asked her why? She said she needed to buy a new laptop, a new phone and other stuff. I was shocked. We haven't had sex and you are so ungrateful. Instead of me to run at this point, I still went ahead.

After spending 2 days in Abuja, I decided to travel to Benin city to see my family and friends. Immediately I got to benin that end SARS protest started and I was terrified. I thought Nigeria is about to burn and I'll be trapped here. @Mazigburugburu1

Now, back in Germany we started talking and she asked me what I think. I told her I already loved her and meeting her face to face my love for her went from 80 to 200%.
I finally decided to buy her the laptop and the phone she asked for.

I got her an Iphone 12 and macbook air 2017. I told her that I don't do fraud so she should not expect much from me. I'm just a normal guy that just do my legit job and earn salary, I have bills to pay too.

I told her to look for a job that will assist her till I come back in 2021. She finally got a call for a job interview, after the interview they asked her to pay 500k. I was very happy cos the job will pay her well for at least one year then we see what happens after the marriage

She told me she hasn't paid her rent and the landlord is threatening to send her packing. I paid the 480k and asked her to look for a 3 bedroom duplex. She also told me she couldn't pay for her twins school fees and she's afraid. @Deji @yabaleftonline @instablog9ja

I was doing this cos I truly love her but then I noticed that each time we have an issue, I'd always be the one to apologize. She hardly say sorry or please.

This year January, I decided to come back to Nigeria cos I assumed that our quarrels was the distance. I told her to make enquiries of business we can start and do it for 1 year then we can then relocate to Canada and she agreed.

She gave me the estimate of a water factory, logistic and POS. I finally got back on the 28th of January and we moved to our new home. I furnished it and did everything with my money.

The only thing she contributed was showing me directions and location of where to get things. Bought her children their keyboard for their music school.

She said who registers a company and calls it and sons? That she's a feminist and that's gross. That if we have a daughter what will happen? I apologized but she said she'll not have anything to do with such company.

After that incident, we started having issues here and there. Each time we had these issues, I'll just drive out and look for an hotel to sleep. So in February I traveled to my home town in imo state for a cousins traditional wedding and...

I didn't go with her cos I don't understand her yet, introducing her to my family will not work yet. Now In that wedding I met another girl, a friend of my cousin (the bride) and we talked and exchanged numbers.

Sometimes in March, she started her drama as usual and refused to talk with me, I also left home as usual to lodge in a hotel. This continued until one day I got a call from this other lady who said she's been trying to reach me and I have refused to pick.

I said to her that I didn't see her call. We later made plans to see which we did. We finally met last week and we spent the whole weekend together.

It was nice, fun filled and no drama until I went back home. She was furious that I was irresponsible for living her with the kids without talking about their resumption and that school fees is there and all.

I just Lied to her that I was with a friend but she didn't believe it. The next day, she went to the market with my car and that's when she found out that I paid for an hotel with my card and also went to shoprite.

She came back home early and that's unusual. She descended on me and I was forced to tell her the truth. I told her that I had sex with the other lady cos for me, she's not serious about the relationship. @abujastreets

She does not appreciate the things I do for her. I told her that we can work to make this relationship work and I promise to give her the password to my phone (which I did and she also gave me her own) and that I'll install a mobile spy app on my phone.

That I'm deeply sorry. She said she needs to think about it. The next morning I asked her what's her decision and she said she feels betrayed and everyone on my contact list is a suspect.

We were still talking and I tried to open her phone and that's when I discovered she's changed her phone password. I took the phone and it smashed on the floor.

That's when she destroyed my 2 laptops, now I knew she's going to make false accusations and I started recording with my Canon camera and when she she noticed that I've started recording,

she grabbed the camera and smashed it too. Then I started recording with my spy watch. She destroyed a couple of things and took my phone. She said I should pack and go that she's done with me. @henryshield

I was shocked and knelt down and started begging. I asked her to give me the 20k Euro with her (our business money) and she refused. I also asked her to give me the laptop so that I can sell it and buy my return ticket and she also refused.

I begged her to release my phone so that I can call someone to come pick my stuff and she also refused, instead she called the efcc and they came. She told them I'm a fraudster and a cultist that I tried to kill her and her children.

I was shocked but not surprised cos I know she knows some top people. I told her I'm not afraid cos I know she's lying. 3 men later came and they said if I don't pay them 1 million they'd take me pictures and give me a white board to carry.

I explained to them everything and they said I should settle with her. We finally agreed on 300k and of course I don't have the money. She gave them 600euro and they left.

When we went back in, I became angry and asked her why would she give them our business money but she's refused give me money to buy my flight ticket back to Germany. I begged her to stop Whatever evil she's about to do so not to jeopardize and destroy our relationship @SavvyRinu

She finally released the phone after forwarding massages from my phone, deleted some other things and changed the password. Right now I can't even unlock my phone using passcode only with the finger print.

I finally left the house with the things she dropped outside. Went to a hotel and that's when I realized that I've been defrauded. I'm heart broken cos people warned me that I was going to regret it but I didn't listen.

Now I've lost everything I have. I'm homeless in Abuja and living in my car. No money and nothing to sell. I'm considering starting an Uber with my car. I don't even have the money to hire a lawyer and also no money to pursue this case.

She has made a report to the @PoliceNG that I attempted to murder her and her kids. The police has invited me.

I've never seen anything like this in my life. Please Twitter help me get justice. @PoliceNG @officialefcc

I Have bank statements of the rent and some other money. She can keep the 20k Euro but I need justice. The house is mine and I need her to pay for my things she destroyed so that I can sell them and start somewhere. I'm frustrated

@Tutsy22 @lindaikeji @SAMKLEF

She has never introduced me to her friends or family. I don't know anyone who knows her. I only spoke with her brother and sister on the phone but never met them. She always said she likes to keep her life private and marriage is between the man and wife and not village people.

Please guys help me retweet until I find help and justice. She claims I'm a cheat and that's the consequences. I also just found out that the father of her twins is not in jail and she is still in contact with him.

All I wanted was to build someone to become an independent woman. I never knew I was being defrauded. @ALIBABAGCFR

@adeyanjudeji @mrmacaronii @DONJAZZY

I was doing everything for her including paying for her CV review @OgbeniDipo

Oh and I didn't mention that we last had sex in February.

I'm heart broken guys please help me out. I'm losing my mind. I don't want to do anything stupid. Guys help me out. She's well connected. I'm just driving and roaming the streets of Abuja. @WazobiaFMAbuja @humanrightradio @AbujaCityDotCom

Anytime we are having any misunderstanding, she's quick to call her children and tell them to sit that that I have been beating her. Now that my eyes are clear, I understand she's been doing that to make the kids hate me. I have videos of so many instances

She said I don't have a degree and I'm not her type. @Omojuwa @MrOdanz all I need is my life back. She's frustrated me and I'm thinking of killing myself.