since it's lesbians day here is something i saw a lot of my non lesbians oomfs doing and that makes me meh. this is not mean to be rude or anything, just to avoid making your lesbians oomfs potentially uncomfortable. please if you're not lesbian avoid calling stuff "lesbian" (1/3

only based on stereotypes (ex: your kpop girl is doing an activity considered "masculine", or wearing "masculine" clothes (through society eyes) and you're going to say "wow she's such a lesbian" and even worst when you put them in categories (ex: wow x is such a butch) (2/3)

this is just something that makes me uncomfortable and it might not be shared with other lesbians, but based on my personal feelings perpetrating stereotypes about lesbians when you're not one, even jokingly, is wrong