1. We need to move away from the idea that marriage is for everybody & that it’s this big part of adulthood. If you’re concerned about the legalities, get a will and keep it moving.

2. Marry people who you love. Not the idea of being with them but loving them as an individual.
So many people getting married for the wrong reasons or they are being forced into making life long decisions.

This idea that “the love will come” nuh always work out. Chances are if it’s not there before you say “I do.” a it that.
Big up the Christians but y’all have to take a different approach with pre marital sex. Sex is a big make or break for marriages. Women & men have to be happy, comfortable & enjoying sex for marriages to lasts.

Let’s people have practical conversations about sex before marriage.
Money is another big issue in marriages. These are difficult conversations and people ignore them and think, they’ll cross that bridge when the time comes. That, a problem.

Having children and how many is another difficult conversation to have.
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