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Politics was never my thing but stopping malignant narcissist sociopaths was and is. Hence my political alertness when the former guy won.
That said, following the 5 yr trial of my psychopath sibling who murdered our mother, I came home & boxed up piles of legal docs, emails, etc
That said, following the 5 yr trial of my psychopath sibling who murdered our mother, I came home & boxed up piles of legal docs, emails, etc
I took the laptop that contained the entire nightmare - backed it up & placed it away on a shelf. I removed anything in my house that reminded me of her. I chose healing over bitterness & resentment. I haven't "forgotten" any of it - I charge the laptop periodically but never
turn it on. The bankers boxes are labeled & stacked neatly away. I talk about it occasionally when it helps me or someone else.
The former guy & those aiding him fall into the same category. Gone but not forgotten. No longer care what he does or says. May watch if he's ever put
The former guy & those aiding him fall into the same category. Gone but not forgotten. No longer care what he does or says. May watch if he's ever put
on trial but otherwise could care less what he's doing. This keeps me sane, anchored. It's a spot where the negative doesn't rule the day & I'm able to breathe, exhale & find joy back in my life. People who are healing from a tragedy or want to identify as a victim/survivor know
it's the only way to find peace. It's not that you "forget" the past, it's that it sits on a shelf or in a closet where YOU define when & where it comes out. YOU control the impact it has on your daily life. When you finally stop taking it out & examining it every day, you are
able to find positive things to focus on - worthwhile causes to be a part of. The accountability & consequences is theirs to bear & what's yours is the ability to change things.
Find peace. Be kind. Find joy. Be happy. Let the rotten feed upon itself & steer clear of it.
Find peace. Be kind. Find joy. Be happy. Let the rotten feed upon itself & steer clear of it.
