Politics was never my thing but stopping malignant narcissist sociopaths was and is. Hence my political alertness when the former guy won.
That said, following the 5 yr trial of my psychopath sibling who murdered our mother, I came home & boxed up piles of legal docs, emails, etc
That said, following the 5 yr trial of my psychopath sibling who murdered our mother, I came home & boxed up piles of legal docs, emails, etc
I took the laptop that contained the entire nightmare - backed it up & placed it away on a shelf. I removed anything in my house that reminded me of her. I chose healing over bitterness & resentment. I haven& #39;t "forgotten" any of it - I charge the laptop periodically but never
turn it on. The bankers boxes are labeled & stacked neatly away. I talk about it occasionally when it helps me or someone else.
The former guy & those aiding him fall into the same category. Gone but not forgotten. No longer care what he does or says. May watch if he& #39;s ever put
The former guy & those aiding him fall into the same category. Gone but not forgotten. No longer care what he does or says. May watch if he& #39;s ever put
on trial but otherwise could care less what he& #39;s doing. This keeps me sane, anchored. It& #39;s a spot where the negative doesn& #39;t rule the day & I& #39;m able to breathe, exhale & find joy back in my life. People who are healing from a tragedy or want to identify as a victim/survivor know
it& #39;s the only way to find peace. It& #39;s not that you "forget" the past, it& #39;s that it sits on a shelf or in a closet where YOU define when & where it comes out. YOU control the impact it has on your daily life. When you finally stop taking it out & examining it every day, you are
able to find positive things to focus on - worthwhile causes to be a part of. The accountability & consequences is theirs to bear & what& #39;s yours is the ability to change things.
Find peace. Be kind. Find joy. Be happy. Let the rotten feed upon itself & steer clear of it.
Find peace. Be kind. Find joy. Be happy. Let the rotten feed upon itself & steer clear of it.