as a mlm person i am asking you guys to pleasse look at some resources about racial and wlw fetishization, understand how it effects people& #39;s everyday lives and how they interact w others, and understand how bad it looks to just be throwing the word fetishization around

here& #39;s an article about racial fetishization https://www.forbes.com/sites/janicegassam/2021/02/07/what-is-fetishization-and-how-does-it-contribute-to-racism/?sh=1866d7d06e39">https://www.forbes.com/sites/jan...

and on the fetishization of lesbian and bisexual women https://info.umkc.edu/womenc/2014/04/18/the-fetishization-of-lesbians-and-bisexual-women/">https://info.umkc.edu/womenc/20...

not saying mlm ppl hv never been fetishized but u have to understand it happens way less often and it effects our everyday lives sm less. i& #39;ve never felt unsafe or uncomfortable over something relating to me being mlm the way poc or wlw ppl are. think about the words you use.