// dnf neg
A thread explaining the problematic and fetishizing side of DNF.
Before we get into the thread, thiz thread waz written by two nblm. Me, and my friend Chara (@ cursed_chara). Alzo, we’re not trying to zay that everyone who zhipz DNF iz fetizhizing mlm or a fujozhi. It’z juzt that we’ve zeen a lot of queztionable people, and wanna addrezz how-
it makez uz feel. Final thing, I have a writing quirk that may be hard to read, if you ever need a tranzlation for a word or a whole part of the thread I will provide one.
Firzt of all, letz talk about fanfiction. We’ll be addrezzing the popular onez like Heatwavez and FF1970, and alzo zmaller onez.
Starting with heatwaves, it’s the second most popular fic on ao3 at the current time of posting this, and the creator has over 58k followers on twitter. Now, the problem with this is that the author isn’t nblm or mlm . It’s also about two in real life men who are both cishet as
far as we are aware. George has also stated that he’s straight MULTIPLE times. Also, stop associating it with glass animals. They’ve stated that they don’t like it and that it’s a personal song to them.
It’s also practically fetishising nblm and mlm. Coming from a person who’s nblm i wouldn’t like it if a fanfiction about two in real life cis straight men was the second most popular on ao3, and had thousands supporting it. Most who may be cis women or, non nblm or mlm.
Next, is FF1970. Now, FF1970 already had multiple things wrong with it that isn’t the fetishising on nblm or mlm. Which are : breaking multiple boundaries of niki, techno and wilbur. Having techno has a love interest and lastly DNF. Now, the fanfic has been deleted. But, despite
this people are still asking for the saved version of the fanfic. Which is on a private google doc. https://twitter.com/Blinks4Ranboo/status/1384553343171784705
Now, lets rewind a bit to 2015-2016. Septiplier and pewdiecry. At first, it was a harmless little joke that the creators themselves joked about together. But, it started getting worse. Some harassed the girlfriends of said creators and made fanfics, explicit art or just art in
general of these cishet men making out or dating. This ended up destroying mark and jack's friendship and stopped making videos together for about 2 years.
Now, this is happening with dreamnotfound. There’s popular fanfics, explicit fanart, nsfw accounts and cis/non nblm or mlm making jokes about it.
Zpeaking on the jokez, they’re weird in general. You’re making jokez - that’re zometimez nzfw - about people you DO NOT KNOW. Yeah Karl, Zapnap, Ant, Bad, etc may make DNF jokez but that’z because they’re FRIENDZ WITH DREAM AND GEORGE. Also, ant is mlm himself !! Zo iz Velvet!!!
Alzo, do any of you remember when Vurb apologized to the mlm community for making nzfw Zkephalo jokez? He did that because he noticed people were becoming uncomfortable. Iz it zo hard to do the zame az him and apologize and ztop making DNF jokez?
Thirdly, DNF iz becoming the bazeline for mlm zhipz, if that makez zenze. People are zeeing DNF ficz, jokez, and fanart and assuming that all mlm and nblm zhipz are the zame. Thiz iz juzt falze, coming from nblm. Especially zince, to me perzonally, DNF can come off az a
hyper-zexualized zhip.
Another thing, Dream and George are REAL PEOPLE. We’ve zaid thiz before but I feel like it needz to be zaid again. Juzt because Dream and George are okay with sexualization dozen’t make it any lezz weird. Pluz, Dream haz zaid he’z okay with sexualization AZ LONG AZ THE PEOPLE
SEXUALIZING HIM AREN’T MINORZ. https://twitter.com/yurisa3_/status/1383639753950515204
How would you feel, az a man in your 20z, if a bunch of teenagerz were sexualizing you and your best friend. Making fanart and fanficz of you and you’re friend kizzing, and having zex? Yeah it would be pretty fucking weird right? You guyz have got to keep in mind that Dream and
George are humanz with emotionz. They’re perspective of each other can be changed for the worze because of weird zhipperz, whether they want it to or not.
It dozen’t help when Dream and George are literally pandering thiz to their fanbase. Do they even care about how it’z making mlm feel? I’m ztarting to doubt they do. Me and my friendz have spoken about how it’z made uz uncomfortable openly on zo many occazionz. We’ll get more
into thiz topic after we zhow all the proof we’ve found of mlm/nblm being uncomfy and people being weird about the zhip.
If you refuse to believe that the stuff people are doing iz making mlm uncomfy, herez a tweet I made. Look at all the people under it, zome of them aren’t even in the fandom. (i got permizzion to include the priv reply and any dmz from the perzon)
https://twitter.com/MarbledGlatt/status/1386048203112452114
Herez zome more proof of MLM being uncomfortable with the zhip:
https://twitter.com/dohdotpng/status/1383196173327073281 https://twitter.com/praetorfronk/status/1384534676241625088
Herez proof of people being weird/breaking boundariez (therez zo much more out there but it genuinely makez me angry and zick and I’m trying to have a good day):
https://twitter.com/dreamnyafound/status/1386048359236980737
https://twitter.com/McWasFound/status/1384983292500348929
https://twitter.com/LysNotFound/status/1384634912184152067
(thread will continue zoon)
Now, onto the creators themselves. Dream is the big problem here as he’s the one who mainly panders to that side of the audience. He makes jokes about it on stream, saying that he’s fine with irl shipping and nsfw fanart. That doesn’t mean it’s ok to make it. It’s fetishising
mlm/nblm and it’s disgusting. Dream also likes to put little jokes in with things like coding the front screen of minecraft to say ‘dreamnotfound <3’. Even talking about heat waves on stream from time to time.
This just panders to the irl shipping side of the audience encouraging them to carry on shipping these two cishet men. Sometimes even flirting with George on twitter, which isn’t a problem ! If there wasn’t an audience shipping these two that he’s aware of. Dream is aware of this
and has never said no to it. Flirting with friends shouldn’t result in hundreds of thousands of people making fanfictions, fanart and nsfw jokes. It should just be harmless banter. Between long time friends.
George doesn’t tend to make theze types of jokez az much, luckily. However that juzt makez anytime he doez that much more fire to the flame. Now I’m not zaying they should ztop jokingly flirting, or that George should flirt more. I’m juzt point it out.
Now, the donations. The donations about dreamnotfound specifically. I think the problem has been solved ? as it’s mainly just ‘hey can you say my name’ or ‘hey can you say hi to ____’ . But, it was still a problem. A while back, people would try to get George to say
‘I love you dream’ or ‘I love dream’ in different ways. It started out just harmless till it was constant. It was weird to say. I’m not sure if there’s still this problem today as I don’t watch either of their streams. But, if you still do it. Stop. It’s weird and probably makes
George highly uncomfortable to be donated to say I love you to his friend. Glatt here, alzo it’z very obviouz that George haz troublez zhowing affection, zo begging him to zay “I love you Dream” probably juzt makez him even more uncomfortable than you’d think.
Lastly, please stop donating about heat waves. Not only is it disrespectful to the authors wishes but it’s highly inappropriate to donate to a 21 year old cishet man to read a fanfic where he’s in love with his best friend. It’s just disgusting.
I’m nblm and it rubs me the wrong way.
Before we make the final additionz to thiz thread, therez zomething I would like to zay. Pleaze don’t hunt down anyone in thiz thread. No matter what we’re uzing their tweets for. Thiz thread iz alzo zuppozed to EDUCATE and INFORM PEOPLE. Not to call people out.
I’d alzo like to zay again that thiz thread waz made by NBLM and all opinions we are about to include az a final thing iz from MLM AND NBLM PEOPLE. Zo, that out of the way, here are zome personal opinions I have grabbed from people, all of which are going to remain anonymouz.
My opinion on DNF iz that it’z very problematic. It haz cauzed a lot of dizcomfort and anger. Pleaze remember that when you fetizhise mlm/nblm, you fetizhise mlm and nblm people. Thiz thread iz not about DNF making Dream and George uncomfy, it’z about how dnf iz making
nblm and mlm people uncomfortable.
- Glatt
Chara here. My opinion on DNF is that it’s highly problematic and uncomfortable for me, a NBLM. It fetishises nblm/mlm and isn’t funny. The jokes are sexualising nblm/mlm and are mostly about top/bottom or sexualising them. It’s been taken wayy to far to the point that it gets
trending. This thread isn’t supposed to cancel or call out people, it’s to address the problem with DNF and how it makes nblm/mlm uncomfortable.
Finally, before we get into the anonymouz opinionz, I would juzt like to thank everyone who helped with the thread. Especially Chara, who’z been zuch a great help. I’d alzo like to thank everyone who vouched under my tweet whether it waz before thiz thread waz finizhed and posted
Alzo, if you have an opinion about dnf you’d like to anonymouzly (or openly) zhare feel free to DM me :] - Glatt
Forgot to mention thiz before, but zhipping DNF iz okay az long az you're not being weird and you're repzecting boundariez.
alzo i'm juzt gonna zay that 1) i'm not trying to zpeak over nblm. We literally ztated in the thread that thiz waz about people who r weird about it 2) pleaze try and be rezpectful when criticizing thiz thread or I will not take you zeriouzly 3) have a great day
Alzo, we're zorry if it came off az EVERYONE who zhipz it iz weird, we were trying to zay that a loud group of people were
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