I live in joint family of 16 ! Each individual is diff
Mom , taya ji - they’re using their SM to fullest along with that they’ve formed group with their friends and prepare meals for people in hospitals and isolation!
Chachu and 2 cousins- they help with delivery!
Brother- busy

In WFH
Chachi ,dadu , dadi - no one talks about Covid in front of them , they were informed about my +ve report after 5 days bcz they literally have panic attacks !
Tayi ji , dad - they’re helping by donating money no use of SM
Other cousins- the best they’re doing is by

Staying at home !! They belong to the category who party all day and home is just to sleep !!
Me- reading novel or Netflix all day ! Or watching skincare videos! (till 29)

Each individual is diff here , everyone have diff approach to life and it’s diff doesn’t mean it’s wrong!!

one thing that is practiced here in common is “first priority to your mental health and no judgements to other”
Those who do so much doesn’t taunt others who’re doing nothing! Those who’re doing nothing doesn’t belittle/envy others !

Understanding is necessary to co exist