Attachment styles and their characteristics, A thread

>Secure attachment style where the child was brought up in a safe environment with parents who were consistent with taking care of the child's both emotional and physical needs. Known to be the "good attachment style"
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>anxious-insecure attachment styles is where the child received love & support from their parents at one time but no reaction at another time,this lack of predictability will make the person to be more clingy, needy,even tantrums to get a reaction. They tend to be more anxious.
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>avoident style is when the parents are cold and distanced,they will take care of physical needs but emotions were suppressed.These people grow up to feel uncomfortable with intimacy,expressing emotions is much harder for them.They often do feel like they dont deserve love/care
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Disorganized style is where the parents did not took care of the child,uses fear to discipline or to get anything get done, the child grows up wanting love and afraid to ask for it. They often end up in toxic relationship and blame themselves for the partner's abusive behaviour
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all these are developed thru your childhood with how your primary care taker was responding to your needs, if you find yourself in any of the problem area, its time to reparent yourself, which is treating and standing up for yourself like how you want your parents to be.