I had sex with this guy yesterday within few hours of meeting him.

I went to make my hair at a salon around Ademola Adetokunbo. It was a unisex salon and he came to have a haircut. I complimented how nice the haircut was and how handsome he was too. He smiled and thanked me.

“If you are not in a hurry, can you wait for me so that we can sit around somewhere and have a chat?”
It is no news that Abuja boys are cheap and I betted he will wait.

He said he will wait for me if mine wouldn’t take so much time.

I assured him I just wanted to wash my hair and that wouldn’t take more than thirty minutes.

In a moment, I was done and we left in the car. We went to a nice restaurant in Mabushi.

We ate rice and drank tropical breeze. I told him where I reside and he said he had always wanted to visit that place but haven’t had anything that would take him there.

“In that case, let’s go at once. I might be that thing that will bring you there.” I said.

He was reluctant to go. “I am just meeting you and you know how dangerous Abuja could be. I don’t know you, what if something happens to me?”

I reassured him that I am a good woman and wouldn’t harm him. He agreed and we set out to my place.

The way he was looking around when we got to my place, it was obvious he was impressed.

“Excuse me. Please don’t be angry. How much do you pay here?”

I told him how much the rent was.

I knew in his head, he must be thinking that a woman who had money to pay such rent will have enough to spend on him.

I asked what I would offer him and he shouted “aaaaahhh, do you want to kill me with food? Didn’t we just finish eating now?”

I sat beside him while we were talking. As we talked, I shifted closer to him and he looked at me from the sides of his eyes. I think he was expecting the moves because immediately I pulled him closer, our lips were locked in a holy kiss.

I quickly stripped and helped him out of his clothes. I mounted on him as my breasts dangled in his face. His eyes were fixed on my breasts, admiring how beautiful a woman’s body is. Maybe, he was also wondering why men weren’t created with such gorgeousness.

I pulled him into a sitting position and he buried his face between my breasts. He took my nipple in his mouth. At first, his mouth was warm but it didn’t take a while before he started sucking my nipple like one who hasn’t eaten in days. It was very painful.

Men never do anything right. They don’t know anything. Should there be a lecture to teach men that the nipples aren’t chewing gums and shouldn’t be chewed on? DON’T chew. TONGUES and LIPS not teeth.

I gently eased my nipple from his mouth.

He started kissing me everywhere and nibbled on the other nipple. He took it in his mouth. This time, it wasn’t that painful.

As I was about sliding his phallus in me, I jumped down from his body.

“Do you have condoms?” I asked.

He said he doesn’t have any as he doesn’t go about with condoms. I sent him to go get one from a pharmacy. He did and we consummated our few hours meeting.

The problem is, why was I bothered about using a condom? I have slept with random men without condoms.

Why was this one different?

Does it mean I may be falling in love with my husband? It is a known fact that when a woman uses condoms with other men while in a relationship, it is indicative that she loves the man she is with. If not, she wouldn’t bother.

After all, if she transmits diseases to him, he will treat himself and still remain in that marriage. Las las, he will pray for her to change or go fight the man she is sleeping with.

She might even sleep with the husband and the man will contract STDs,

while she treats herself without disclosing that to him so that he can start his treatment too. The man will be absolutely ignorant while the wife knew and has been treating herself. So, when the man finds out about his status,

the woman will accuse him of being the one that transmitted it her. If the man dies first because he didn’t start his treatment early or didn’t take any at all because he was ignorant of his status, people will assume he got it first because he died first.

If I knew all that and still was bothered about using a condom, don’t you think I might be in love with my husband who is in his mother’s house? What did they say about absence and making the heart fonder?

But this isn’t supposed to be.

What has my husband done to deserve my love? We all know that a man should first be submissive for the woman to reward him with love. Love isn’t just given. For a man to be bestowed with love, he should work hard for it in submission.

Again, what has Ugochukwu done to deserve my love?

Is this ordinary? Don’t you think that my husband and the father must have used charms? I am very worried.

Wait! Maybe, it was the guy I slept with that I am loving.

Just look at it, if a woman doesn’t love you, she won’t use condoms. But if she uses condoms, it shows she loves you. What if it’s him I am loving? What if my Chi is leading me to a man that will give me children? O gaghi adinu mma ka aha m fuo. Ama nne m agaghi echi.

Chi m, make this clearer. I am really confused. My foremothers even with many husbands and lovers weren’t this confused. Let my ancestors not be ashamed of me for being confused over just two men. Chineke, zaa m biko.

Iseee.