If you honour mothers so much, why do they eat last in your households?

We honour mothers, meanwhile all the grown men are sitting being fed their second servings while the mother who gave birth 6 months ago is standing at the stove scooping out more fresh pakoras from the oil and no one cares to make sure she gets a bite to eat as well.

Went to a wedding, there was one food buffet. Food already was so late. When, ready they called men first. Then the men got seconds+thirds. Table finally free for women/kids after more than hour. By then the men were ready to go, phoning their wives to leave bc it was too late.

Your dining etiquettes don’t show any sign of “honour” or “respect” sorry. Literally no one cares about mothers and if and when they get to eat. Pregnant, new mom, doesn’t matter.

This Ramadan- make sure that your mothers are breaking their fast and eating with everyone else, in peace, and not whirling around the kitchen while you chug your samosas. If you see it happening, intervene. Just knowing someone cares about them, and their meal, is meaningful.