I really thought I wouldn’t have to do this but here we go....
Last night I saw a whole thread about me and how I am a predator and abuser and I am sick of this to be honest. Yes, I have engaged with people on a D/s level or relationship but it was consensual, consent...
Last night I saw a whole thread about me and how I am a predator and abuser and I am sick of this to be honest. Yes, I have engaged with people on a D/s level or relationship but it was consensual, consent...
Is something I am very adamant about, now, the catalyst of all this was me commenting on a tweet by someone I was once involved with. I didn’t like their tweet and chose to comment on it, it had NOTHING to do with our past relationship and solely had to do with their take...
I fully take responsibility for this reaction, given their history and mine I should have kept my mouth shut, however, I did not expect them to drudge up the past because he had nothing to do with this particular tweet and was so off topic. When they reacted and then I....
Reacted poorly, I can own that. I felt attacked and reacted and that was my mistake, which I own. I am not perfect, sometimes I am too sensitive and I am working on that. Another individual, made it their mission to try and destroy me, claiming people have come forward to him...
About me and how I coerced them and all this, sorry, but if I engage with someone I want to know things are consensual. People saying I gave them bad vibes is one thing, I can respect if I give you bad vibes, many of my interests are still taboo and have a lot of....
Baggage associated with these topics, I enjoy discussing these topics but if someone tells me they don’t want to talk about whatever topic I will respect that. I don’t expect everyone to be as open as I am about certain topics. The thing is, I want people to feel comfortable...
Around me, I know I am intense, transgressive, I know, I will not apologize for that but I never want or try to force myself on anyone. If I overstep and am told that I did I will apologize and stop. With how I reacted to this tweet in question may not appear to be...
Indicative of that and for that I am sorry, I reacted from an emotional level and I can own that mistake. These accusations of predatory behaviour on the other hand, are distorted allegations of a once D/s relationship that I chose to end. I wish no harm on anyone....
And if anything, I have spent these last few days reflecting on every single relationship, encounter, conversation, I have ever had with anyone and analyzing if or how any interaction could be seen by another. I am a firm believer in personal growth and because of all....
This, I am contemplating how I will interact with people in the future, I am being very open and honest when I say this whole situation as left me very “gun shy” so to speak, with how I may appear with my actions, even the most mundane and innocuous actions...
If people want to paint me as a monster, I can’t stop you from doing so, but one thing I know is that I am who I am and am abuser is not one of those things. For those on the fence about me, I will not fault anyone for wanting to wash their hands of me, that is your choice...
I hold no grudge on anyone, only disappointment with a few who I thought were friends, clearly, I was wrong in assuming that they were. Anyway, with all that being said, I am not going anywhere. I will still be here, I don’t care about my numbers for I prefer genuine....
Interactions and discourse, that is why I am here. Villain or not, I am a real person who I know not all will understand and that’s okay, I will continue to be me.
I also really should have checked for the obvious grammatical errors in this thread
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