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How many times have you heard people saying,
"I'm so sorry to DISTURB you"?
My immediate response is,
"You can't do that, it doesn't make sense"
Here's why
(A Short Perspective Thread)
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"I'm so sorry to DISTURB you"?
My immediate response is,
"You can't do that, it doesn't make sense"
Here's why
(A Short Perspective Thread)
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The DEFINITION?
According to the literal definition,
It is the interruption or interference in the normal arrangement or functioning of anything.
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According to the literal definition,
It is the interruption or interference in the normal arrangement or functioning of anything.
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However, from an emotional perspective,
It has less to do with the OCCURRENCE of an interruption but more to do with the ACCEPTANCE of disturbance.
And this acceptance is in the hands of the person facing that disturbance.
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It has less to do with the OCCURRENCE of an interruption but more to do with the ACCEPTANCE of disturbance.
And this acceptance is in the hands of the person facing that disturbance.
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To understand it better, let's take detail it out
Imagine there are two people i.e. Person 1 & Person 2.
Now this PERSON 1 can only 'disturb' PERSON 2 on the completion of these 3 steps,
Step 1 â
PERSON 1 allow himself to get diverted from what he/she's doing right now
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Imagine there are two people i.e. Person 1 & Person 2.
Now this PERSON 1 can only 'disturb' PERSON 2 on the completion of these 3 steps,
Step 1 â
PERSON 1 allow himself to get diverted from what he/she's doing right now
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Step 2 â
Gives his attention and energy to PERSON 2.
And Step 3 â
Feel that 'regret' as an outcome of his actions [even if it's slightly]
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Gives his attention and energy to PERSON 2.
And Step 3 â
Feel that 'regret' as an outcome of his actions [even if it's slightly]
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If you think Step 1 is not in your hands,
Always remember that Step 2 is ALWAYS in your hand.
And the Step 3 i.e. feeling regret is the outcome of Step 2 i.e. giving away your attention & energy.
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Always remember that Step 2 is ALWAYS in your hand.
And the Step 3 i.e. feeling regret is the outcome of Step 2 i.e. giving away your attention & energy.
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*But here's something more I want to share!*
In the same case which we discussed,
If it's a "NO" from PERSON 1's side and despite that, PERSON 2 is keeping on bugging him,
that's outright "Harassment"
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In the same case which we discussed,
If it's a "NO" from PERSON 1's side and despite that, PERSON 2 is keeping on bugging him,
that's outright "Harassment"
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Level of this Harassment is proportional to the pressure from PERSON 2's side.
"Harassment" can turn into a "Disturbance",
If PERSON 1 kneels down to that pressure or burst out due to anger or frustration caused by the harassment.
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"Harassment" can turn into a "Disturbance",
If PERSON 1 kneels down to that pressure or burst out due to anger or frustration caused by the harassment.
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PS
No! you can't "Disturb" me until and unless I let you take me away from my work and later regret about it.
However, Harassment is what you do will be doing if you continue pursuing me despite hearing a "NO".
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No! you can't "Disturb" me until and unless I let you take me away from my work and later regret about it.
However, Harassment is what you do will be doing if you continue pursuing me despite hearing a "NO".
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So,
Don't DISTURB yourself or HARASS others.
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Don't DISTURB yourself or HARASS others.
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THE END
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