talking to a friend who& #39;s currently job hunting, and our of nowhere remembered the time an employer called a former CEO (TWO jobs ago, not even my current manager) to ask about me without my knowledge or consent
I need to stop wondering why I ended up in HR
I need to stop wondering why I ended up in HR
this probably goes without saying but this is not ok, you should never do this, and if your employee finds out you did this they will never be able to trust you
"but I want an honest opinion!"
well, so. the CEO that got called told everyone I was "extremely negative."
"but I want an honest opinion!"
well, so. the CEO that got called told everyone I was "extremely negative."
so I had this watchful eye over me for the first few months for any sign of negativity. my grandmother passed away, I was visibly upset, suddenly I was hearing about my ~*negativity*~
would this had even been a concern were it not for the reference biasing them?
would this had even been a concern were it not for the reference biasing them?
the reality was:
- CEO upset that I quit (again, a job before this), after several tense conversations about pay/role
- he perceived my desire for growth as negativity
- I did not name him as a reference to begin with, because I had 4+ people closer to my actual (content) work
- CEO upset that I quit (again, a job before this), after several tense conversations about pay/role
- he perceived my desire for growth as negativity
- I did not name him as a reference to begin with, because I had 4+ people closer to my actual (content) work