Comparing women to men in everything is very harmful to women.

A lady was seeking for an advice on what to do, apparently, she's engaged to get married. She dated her fiance for 2 years before they got engaged recently and her fiance wanted them to get married immediately.
He's ready to settle down and his family is also pressuring him while she wants to pursue her career. The program she's been applying for was granted, an all paid program to the USA which will last for 2-3years.

The dilemma now is whether to choose marriage or career because
...her fiance has asked her to make a choice either to marry him or forget about him immediately she crosses the border of Nigeria.

The worst people to seek advice from are single-minded, irrational women.

All their advice was painting men bad: men don't sacrifice their careers
...for marriage", "if he was the one who landed his dream job, he won't think twice before taking it", "Women have been supporting their husbands for years, it's high time we changed that", "choose your career girl".

Most of the advice continued in this pattern.
Let's address this their unfortunate idea.

Men and women do not have the same privilege when it comes to career.
Men do not have a choice in pursuing a career; their manhood, their identity, recognition both in the family and society at large, respect, love and affection they
... receive depend on it. So, they have no option but to pursue the money, the achievement and social status.

How could they sacrifice their identity for marriage that will most likely not work out because of the sacrificed career?

But we can't say the same for women, women's
... pursuit of career is out of desire or for some skewed reason.

Secondly, mother nature is unfair to women as regards to their reproductive window. Men have ample time to start a family while women do not, even freezing of eggs hasn't helped Western modern women who attempted
... it. Most middle aged feminists who are obsessed with feminism, who made poor choices now live with antidepressants to help them stay happy.

The biggest lie feminists sold to women is that career is more important than family. Serving your family is slavery but serving a man
...at the office for 8 hours a day, coming home to nag about how your boss is an asshole is not.

Nothing is more important than family. What's the endgame of the hustling if not for family? Having a family is the most important thing to human which is why when your family by
...blood desert you, you create another one through friendship.

Coming to the lady's problem, if the advice had been to pursue her dream and hopefully meet a new man US, it would have made a little bit sense but these women with their social engineered thoughts were trying
...to plant animosity in her heart towards her fiance and that's a very dangerous thing to do.

Well, I hope she made a better choice.

Y'all be careful out there, irrational women are a pandemic.

Good night from Patriarchy Princess.❤️

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