Also, I don’t know who needs to hear this, but do not EVER apologize or feel bad for setting boundaries with someone who thought it was okay to lay hands on you. They never had that right in the first place, and if you don’t even want to shake their hand, you don’t have to.

And before one of y’all goes “oh that’s ridiculous, why would I maintain contact with someone who did that?” or “I would’ve fought back!” or “if someone did that to me, they’d be in jail!” I’m gonna kindly ask you to https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">shove ithttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken"> because you sound ignorant.