the older i get, the less friendly i become —to people i meet irl —except if they like to talk about kpop more as much as i do.

i swear i'd rather not tell any personal things about me to more people. the more i age, the more i find that feeling a bit dragging —as an infp

but not here. i love it here the most and i love talking to moots and oomfs even a bit of my personal life —it's just the environment im working in ... too competitive and too fast-paced. it's tiring.

it's too tiring to build an impression that you're both competent and competitive, especially in maintaining those for 9 hours 5 days a week.

i can only free myself from those when im here. if you see this thread, thank you oomf