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what NOT to do when hyunjin comes back... a thread stays should open:
firstly, i am not saying he is coming back home right in this moment. however, these are some things we should really keep in mind as a fandom for his return.
1. if he lost or gained weight... DO NOT comment on it. instead, just make sure you tell him how much we missed & love him. he was alone for a while, do not judge him.
2. if he cut his hair, don’t cry and whine about it. again, he was alone for a while, and probably could’ve wanted a change or did it out of stress. tell him it looks great, and that we missed & love him. if it bothers you, just remember it’s not ur hair and it grows back.
3. ignore. the. antis. there will obviously be people who come to say shit about him after his return, and the best thing to do is to ignore them, or respond with kindness. we don’t want hj to have anymore negative attention, so don’t even give antis the time of day.
4. do not bring up the situation anymore. there’s no need, and as his fandom we are partially responsible for his image. it’s not necessary to bring up the situation, and a time that could’ve been extremely hard for him.
5. do not try to force content out of him. his return may be slow for several reasons. he could feel uneasy coming back straight away with a bunch of new material. instead, let him come back in his own way at his own pace.
6. in conclusion, if anything changed about his appearance, do not comment on it. please just remind him how much we love & care for him, and try your best to follow everything i said. i know everyone will be excited, but it’s important to keep these things in mind.
i miss u lovestay boy
