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How my 4 days relationship ended.
A thread.
A thread.
Vele me and this hun had a talking stage for 2yrs
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> during that stage, we weren& #39;t exclusive. Umntu ebezenzela into yakhe. Ekugqibeleni besingajoli wethu. Okay so I met this hun kwi soccer camp in march 2019. The camp comprised of students from different universities.
Hun was from UFS. The vibe, everything. We& #39;d video call everyday. I didn& #39;t feel like she was in another province. And her being from PTA kinda gave me hope that Ima see her again during holidays cos mina I knew I wasn& #39;t-
gonna go home due to football obligations I& #39;m almost convinced besijola, we just didn& #39;t label it. I mean hey we even had relationship problems at some point.
Lmao I& #39;m contemplating whether I should continue with this thread or not. But anyway....
Okay so before going to the camp, there was this hun who joined our team. Oh what a beauty and oh she was Xhosa as well. I was happy about that cos now at least I had someone I can relate with. But now I had a crush on this hun, beyi type maan kanjani. I made sure I welcome her
We& #39;d walk together back to campus after training. I& #39;d give her a hug when we meet and when we depart until one of my friends from the team (had a crush on me) told me about this hun& #39;s girlfriend and how famous she was. She was a banyana player and very good. Chile, ndacima fast!
I opted for friendship, sazi buddies ezi ntswempu even though some teammates believed we were more than that. Cos I& #39;d invite her to my res and cook for her. Did this because it got lonely there and eating alone everyday got to me.
Plot twist? This hun& #39;s girlfriend (the banyana star) was that my hun& #39;s friendhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen"> or at least they talked on daily basis. So the star got the hun to stop talking to me cos she wasn& #39;t comfortable with us talking but hun refused. It caused problems in their relationship.
Fast forward to Dec 2019, we had a big tournament (USSA), all University teams were competing and us wits were hostshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen"> I was excited cos I was gonna see my hun from UFS. Fine saya kwi camp ye 2 weeks.
You see now? The star player was breathing through the wound and apparently if it was up to her, she was gonna bring and fetch her hun from training so she cannot camp with us cos of me. I found that funnyhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> but ke akango Thixo, intando yakhe zange yenzeke.
Okay now the tournament is in progress, obviously the fatigue was starting to kick in. So I asked my friend to give me a massage. I went to her room (single room) at night. She gave it to me kamandi kanjani https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen"> ndatipha even. Chile I woke up the next morning! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆♀️" title="Frau gestikuliert „OK“" aria-label="Emoji: Frau gestikuliert „OK“">
Mind you, sleepovers weren& #39;t allowed. So now someone must have seen me go back to my room ekuseni. Oondaba zabantu bathatha this information bayisa ku star playahttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> after sekudala bemxelela about everything we do, noba sijongene or we pass the ball to one another, ebeyazihttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">
Hun liked sharing a table with me during dinner or brekebreke, but I mean she was my friend so why not? I saw nothing wrong with that. Naleyo ibifika emntwini wakhe. So the star player began to attend our games so that enze sure we nowhere near one another.
And apparently the whole of Sundowns squad (her team) knew about this and didn& #39;t like me at all,bendifuna esiqwini. Ehhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen"> so all of these things, star playa would tell my hun from ufshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">. But ke, kunye kwanyanzeleka aqine wethu.
Well my hun and I had plans for after tournament before we depart, when it was time to hit it - I was way too drunk she kicked me out of my school reshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Lachend auf dem Boden rollen" aria-label="Emoji: Lachend auf dem Boden rollen">
Saxabana from dec until some time in feb 2020, but sathetha sabagrand. Sure, life waqhubeka. And oh my friend didn& #39;t cut contact with me like she was instructed by star playa. I think this caused a conflict between them, especially when she comments here on Twitter on my tweets.
My friend wasn& #39;t ready when she got dumped bamtshela ukuthi aze kimi cos clearly she can& #39;t get rid of mehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Lachend auf dem Boden rollen" aria-label="Emoji: Lachend auf dem Boden rollen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> now star playa been feeding my hun lies. But hun didn& #39;t tell me half of the stuff she was fed cos I mean asijoli and whatnot.
Fast forward to March 2021, I decide no maan, let me ask this girl out officially, siyenze lento cos already kuyafana siyajola, we having relationship problems and everything couples have except sex cos of the distance but I was ready and willing to make it work kemna
As much as ndingayithandi lo long distance relationship shandis. But because bendigcwele ndichitheka nguye bendizozama, and hun is a spiritual inclined person ke, she would get dreams that really gave us clarity. She dreamt of me getting a job before I even got the jobhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="❤️" title="Rotes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Rotes Herz">
Okay we both decide to start umjolo wamampela ke manje after so much convincing that I had to do cos hun didn& #39;t trust me and I didn& #39;t understand. She had no reason not to. Okay on the 3rd day of our relationship, hun asks me what happened between my friend and I during camp
I& #39;m like huh? Please elaborate. Okay atsho ke ndimxelele, hun didn& #39;t believe shit I saidhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> wathetha zonke awakhe waziva ngo star playa. She had the worst info about mehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> and didn& #39;t wanna hear niks from me. She now demanded that we do a video call, mina naye, no star playahttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">
I told hun that I won& #39;t do that, athi for sake of peace. Athi star playa wants to apologize to me, I told her akho need cos we weren& #39;t beefing or at least I wasn& #39;t even though yena she was and I wasn& #39;t even aware. I refused. Saxabana. Hun called me immature and childish! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Gebrochenes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gebrochenes Herz">
Hun gave me an ultimatum, that its either I talk to star playa and apologize to her for ruining things between her and her gf or mina naye we stop talking, iyaphela relationship. I was no bro I ain& #39;t doing none of that. I didn& #39;t do anything wrong. Athi me not wanting to apologize
Is me admitting to everything my teammates ever told the star playa. I was like yho baby thats just so unfair and childish of you. I mean it wasn& #39;t my fault star playa didn& #39;t trust her girl. Hun dumped me right there and then, blocked me kuwo wonke ama social platforms.
Yaphela relationship kanjalo. Still today I can& #39;t believe my relationship ended cos of that star playa and that star playa& #39;s relationship ended because of mehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Gebrochenes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gebrochenes Herz">
However I think they are now fixing things cos yesterday when I was searching for my friend here, to my surprise I& #39;m blockedhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Gebrochenes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gebrochenes Herz">
