Signal boosting. https://twitter.com/TalkingSmut/status/1356724081362685956

My own rules are:
- don't DM uninvited
- a professional DM is not permission for personal DMs
- avoid major power imbalances (age etc) when DMing
- operate by the other person's standards for openness
- you can talk smut here but keep it fun
- *pay SWs for their services*

- consent
- consent
- consent
- even Doms must abide by the rules of consent
- especially Doms
- you can't be woke AND an arsehole
- you're only as good a person as the arsehole you defend
- if it's only on social, it isn't love
- keep it to social without enthusiastic consent

These are just my own rules for me, and I give you permission to call me out if I break one. Being less shit is an ongoing education.