#newsupply that knew about ur marriage or relationship & got involved w/ the #Narcissist anyway is actually getting a lot worse treatment than you were. To start the relationship they were already 80/20 overgiving as the Narc lived a double life. The best...

they will ever get is the #lovebombing stage & that stage in this type of pairing is solely geared for harassment of the victim & NOT about #newsupply at all. After that stage It flips right back to 80/20 or in most cases 90/10 & that’s where It sits. Holidays It’s 100/0

Basically, any #newsupply that already didn’t have enough respect for themselves to require their partner not be in a relationship when they met is really in a bad position w/ a Narc. Feel bad for that. It’s not a happy life for them.

This type of #newsupply -the ones ur partner was cheating w/-usually are the worst #flyingmonkeys & that’s because they are so unhappy & looking 2blame someone & focus on something outside themselves. I’m not saying it’s right but w/some compassion it’s easier 2just never react