hmm what’s interesting is that one of the reasons kpop companies have dating bans and don’t want news of their idols dating to get out is so that their idols maintain an appearance of availability. we kind of feed into and validate that mindset when we “joke” around abt the

interactions the tannies have w women, if that makes sense? not only is it heteronormative and weird to see these random girls as a threat, but it also perpetuates that idea ... DOES THIS MAKE SENSE ? i just woke up

THIS : https://twitter.com/klmdynasty/status/1381957716239904769">https://twitter.com/klmdynast...

this is what i was thinking abt right before i posted !! it’s hypocritical https://twitter.com/klmdynasty/status/1381961950058307601">https://twitter.com/klmdynast...

like we obviously don’t agree w that practice — it’s awful and should not be the case. but these types of jokes prove what the companies are thinking abt when they implement those bans: that fans want them to be single, and that it /is/ a big deal if they date.