this sounds weird but. how do people confirm they're nonbinary? do all nb people must know the history of nonbinarity and pronouns and language uses to make sure they're nb? am i "allowed" to use they/them out of nowhere? i have so many questions and im scared to ask them

im questioning my identity more and more but im just scared i might offense anyone by embracing another side of myself and publicly saying i'm okay with they/them when refering to me when i dont actually know the whole story behind it?

can i just simply decide tomorrow that "now you can refer to me as they/them too and thats okay"? do i need to be aware of a lot of stuff im not aware of? what if i realise i was wrong and backtrack later?? im.

I JUST THINK IM OKAY WITH THEY/THEM BUT IDK IF THAT'S VALID........ WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO????

sorry for ranting about stuff that has noting to do with my channel on this main account but. if anyone is open to help guide me about all this i'd really appreciate it,,

well im not actually ranting im just. QUESTIONING MYSELF

also i hope i didnt say anything wrong in this thread this is really impulsive and it's not my intention to say anything offensive at all, im just very confused about myself and i lack a lot of knowledge on the subject? cries

also do you. *have* to be nonbinary in order to use they/them? can cisgender people use they/them? i just wish i knew exactly how im feeling about my alignment.