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I& #39;m proud of myself. This time of year I was in a terrible situationship with a man who was obsessed with BDSM and p*rn. I remember him telling me that he could never date somebody who didn& #39;t want to do BDSM because he& #39;d "just get bored", and so I felt the need-
- to compete, doing all the things he was into. I noticed he followed OF creators and had an account on f*tlife, and so the insecurity continued to settle in. I wanted to feel wanted by him, but looking back, even behind his charisma, I realize now that he never cared about me.-
- The first time I went to his place, he texted me later on "You whine too much 
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😒" title="Unerfreutes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Unerfreutes Gesicht">" No consideration of my feelings. What I thought was just his cool exterior was actually his disregard to emotion and intimacy. At the end of the day, I was a projection of his sexual -
- fantasies; I was not my full self.
I don& #39;t like to overshare, but I tell my stories because I would hate it if a young girl had to go through something similar. I feel the obligation to share my stories of caution. If you are a young girl or woman but ESPECIALLY -
I don& #39;t like to overshare, but I tell my stories because I would hate it if a young girl had to go through something similar. I feel the obligation to share my stories of caution. If you are a young girl or woman but ESPECIALLY -
if you& #39;re a minor, it& #39;s not silly to want a partner who actually cares about you, who values your time and energy, you looks after you, who considers your wants and needs, who loves you and loves you passionately. I grew up thinking romance was silly, or better yet -
- that I wasn& #39;t worthy of it. I& #39;m glad I realized it sooner than later. No matter what anyone tells you, FWBs and situationships are never worth your time. It& #39;s not an exaggeration when I say you are giving so much and not getting enough. -
- Love is a great great thing and I& #39;m proud of my growth in realizing that. I love like no other but I am cautious not out of fear, but out of love for myself: I am an amazing woman and not everyone is deserving of receiving my energy. -
- If I can end this thread with anything, it& #39;s to protect yourself, out of love for yourself.
