Ok so this will be just me getting my side out.

So i was in a relationship with someone and it was going so smoothly. Like we(what I thought at least) were really happy. It was a cute blended family relationship, his kid called me mommy and called Lyla sissy. He wanted to be

Lyla’s dad. I was so so so happy after what happened before. Then I got this message as soon as I got to work this morning.

To say the least, I was shocked. How can we go from like...this super happy domestic relationship to me receiving that? I had a panic attack and broke down crying in shock while at my job. It didnt make sense. I let it be, told a few people because I just wanted to see if I hurt

many people doing something but it was just him I guess. My lovely friend started snooping for me and he started straight up lying to her. He claimed “he didnt know what happened.” He soon changed his story when she asked further and said this.

I was in total shock still. That wasnt a break up. Thats was him just lol-ing out of a relationship and blocking me suddenly. No explanation at all. She pushed further and tried to get a clearer answer when she received this. “Something off”? What did I do? He would never explain

that to anyone. He never talked to me about it. Everything was going great. He never formally broke up with or explained anything to me. He sent that message and blocked. So as I am angry and all my lovely friends are trying to get to the bottom of his I get this message.

No context. No explanation. Nothing. So I answer as politely as possible trying to get an explanation, but this transpired instead. I did get a bit angry but i was hurt. Still no explanation on what i did that made him uncomfortable. Still no answer.

Im still very lost and hurt at what happened. I dont know what I did that hurt him, if anything. A simple short explanation like this one would be fine. Thats all I needed. (Thats bestie for supplying this for me.) All I wanted was to know why.

I would have gracefully thanked him for his sweet nature and the fun time I had being his girlfriend and went on my way. No harm then. I would have understood and we could have parted peacefully. But instead he had to act like an ass to me & my friends and lie. Im glad I got out.