adulting can be lonely. if you're not actively creating the life you want, you will end up doing nothing. life will not come to you. you need to make plans, stick to them, get up and execute.

people often see others living a vibrant life, and long for the same for themselves. recall, as a child, you didn't need to work at having a full life, but as an adult, you have to. many lonely adults are waiting for life to be amazing, but aren't actively doing anything about it

obviously doing nothing isn't bad, and does not equal to being lonely. but if you ARE lonely & want to change that, you should actively try to fill your life with beautiful experiences. you create your life. you create those moments. don't wait for them to happen to you