Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t really believe a lot of Nigerian men even make for good lifetime partners, especially when I try to select for the criteria important to me.

They just bring very little of needed use to the table. Everything they usually bring, I already have.

Emotional support & intelligence? Majority don’t have the range.

Financial support? I don’t need it, and I rarely even come across Nigerian men that outearn me.

Domestic labor? Most are intentionally useless.

So what is the value add?

This is one of the reasons it’s much harder to partner with the average male these days. When you realize how little they bring to the table, it starts to feel like you’re doing unnecessary charity. For some man that will still want you to submit? Make it make sense.