20 Hacks to Crush your 30’s

Many of you think that 30 is old.

Your 30’s stacks up the foundations of your 20’s.

What you do from here on affects the rest of your life.

I wish I knew back then..

Advice to help you

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1. Observe

Keep your eyes peeled. Remain aware.

React and redirect should things go south.

Don’t turn a blind eye.

Become resourceful.

Act.
2. Connect deeper with your Purpose

It’s everything.

Why are you doing what you’re doing?

Is there fire inside you, or are you numb?

If you feel numbness, you have work to do.

Read on.
3. Listen to understand

..Not to answer back.

Listen deeper.

Remain as calm as possible.

Connect with your heart, and theirs.

Lead the conversation by asking more questions, .

Listen to what isn’t being said.

You'll be more attractive.

Greet your new Superpower.
4. Work on your relationships

It's what Life is all about.

They determine your network, your net worth.

They all start inside you, with YOU.

Love yourself first. Others will love you back.

Build trust & bridges in this wonderful world, full of opportunities.
5. Family First

The older you get, the more you appreciate family.

They say you cannot choose your family.

I say you can.

You choose whom to stay in touch with and whom you don't.

You choose who will be close to you & who won’t.

Who will be your family?

Choose carefully.
6. Mindful Parenting

Having children is a beautiful, yet challenging responsibility.

Don’t underestimate your role as an example to your children.

Put yourself in their shoes and always be there for them.

Children will value your time with them, more than any Playstation.
7. Forgive often

You’ll realize that not everything is the fault of others.

Many times it’s yours.

Silence your Ego.

Even when you’re not at fault, you still influence the outcome.

Play the long game.

Forgive.

First yourself, then others.
8. Focus on Financial Education

The financial base was laid in your 20’s, at 30+, it’s time to learn more.

Need to buy that car?
On Day 1 it’s already worth 20% less

Harness & maximize returns.

Educate yourself. Research & invest.

Start to think, plan for retirement.
9. Invest in a Bear market

When the market is down & stocks are low, that's the time to buy.

Not when the market is high.

I learnt this the hard way.

Observe, seek advice and decide wisely.
10. Monetize Social Media

Today is an era full of opportunity.

It’s easier to monetize Twitter & Instagram than ever before.

Leverage your opportunity.

Fantasize and Realize.

Prioritize to Monetize.
11. Listen to your intuition

It’s a superpower.

It’s your secret weapon.

Use it.

Tune into it and listen to its advice.

Thank me later.
12. Work out often.

Cardio or strength training?

You decide. Anything is better than nothing.

You’ll be stronger.

You’ll have more energy.

You’ll be more attractive.

You’ll gain more self confidence.

Don’t thank me.

Work out instead.
13. Read

When you read, you exercise the mind, you increase your knowledge.

You learn, you expand your mind.

Reading helps your writing too.

Your communication skills increase x 10.

It’s a win / win.

Read more.
14. Write

Writing helps you gain clarity.

It puts things into perspective.

It jogs your memory.

It immortalizes your thoughts.

It unleashes creativity you never knew you had.

You write wrongs.

More of you: write?
15. Value not Price

It’s great to have a pair of Nike trainers.

But what value do you get for spending twice the price?

Think mindfully about value.

Don’t get sucked in by the Marketing Copy.

Unless of course you are the next Michael Jordan.

Value that Price.
16. Learn to Deal with Disappointment

You cannot control everything.

Things will go wrong.

Maybe you'll marry, then realize she/he wasn’t the one.

Do what’s right, the pain will hurt.

Feel it, learn from it, heal & move on.

The sun comes after the rain.

Play the long game
17. There’s a Solution for Everything

Except for death.

Work it out and find it.

It may not be easy and you may not like it,

But it solves the problem.

Decide on what’s important.

Do it and solve it.
18. Rest when Tired

You will feel more tired than in your 20’s

Before a night out and 3 hours sleep didn’t affect you much.

Now it does, much more.

Listen to your body.

Your future you will thank YOU.
19. Unleash the Leader Within

It’s time to live your difference.

It’s time to make a difference in others’ lives.

It’s time to HELP others make a difference.

It starts with you, to help others help others.

Become the Leader you wish you had.
20. Leave a Legacy

When you start serving mankind, everything changes.

What are the others saying about you?

What lessons will your followers and children teach?

What will it say on your tombstone?

What is the message you've left?

Start to live your legacy.

Today.
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