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RANT!! We’re all out here losing friendships because of confrontational anxiety, it’s sad how our fight our flight instincts will have us settle for shit talking and believing things you here about that person(which is never accurate) instead of asking them what they did.
I’m regards, communication is a personal responsibility especially in friendships, as much as it’s that persons responsibility to be more aware of what they did, it’s also OUR responsibility to speak up and say what they did that made us upset to begin with
Unless that person does something morally or unforgivably wrong, there’s no valid reason why you can’t communicate what that person did, E V E R Y B O D Y does things we aren’t consciously aware of, some more than others, it’s literally a part of life.
Think about it...how can someone be aware next time not to do the thing that upset you if they aren’t even aware of what they did like?? LOL mind reading isn’t a thing as much as everyone wishes it was.
I HAVE confrontational anxiety but how could I myself hypocritically decide to put myself first and disregard my respect for said friendship?? “They’re grown they should know I shouldn’t have to tell them” OKAY WELL I’m grown and I should be able to communicate how I feel.
To answer that question I can’t and I never do and that’s why I don’t hold grudges and I let things go, because if I can’t communicate properly there’s no other valid or respectable thing to do other than move on, this isn’t a sub just sharing some insight, that’ll be all lol
Hear* and in* whoops lol not very grammar efficient
