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I have interacted with so many girls on SM earlier who have all gone through this same kinda of trauma and alhumdulilah saves many others. Being a male I can suggest few things about how to deal with this.
They are two of type of girls. https://twitter.com/She_Rabbani/status/1381339046903836674
They are two of type of girls. https://twitter.com/She_Rabbani/status/1381339046903836674
1. The girls who have already exposure in college & school about relationship and how boys flirt, they don't get easily in trapped.
2. The girls who has no experience about the male and female conversation & how things goes mainly they get trapped easily.
Here is the litmus test.
2. The girls who has no experience about the male and female conversation & how things goes mainly they get trapped easily.
Here is the litmus test.
90% its not love it's just emotional hormonal chemical imbalance.
Initially everything seems exciting and amazing because there is a barrier so a pervert Male try to break with with forces like praising so much unnecessarily, caring uselessly, creating a fairy tale environment.
Initially everything seems exciting and amazing because there is a barrier so a pervert Male try to break with with forces like praising so much unnecessarily, caring uselessly, creating a fairy tale environment.
The girls gets emotional here and looses her control over herself once the male knew this now he will try pressure her on small things by creating a fake atmosphere of love so that her resistance get weak. Like asking normal DP. Other family or things pic, phone no.
And when she resisted slightly he will try to destroy that fake love atmosphere by suddenly changing the emotional feelings of her and it is so strong that If the person is not experienced or intelligent she will get into this trapped easily, after achieving small things
He will aim for bigger and at the sametime creating a stronger fake atmosphere in this way he will make her do everything as per his will, those who are pious or righteous since a long time will understand at some stage, those who don't have strong hold on deen or experienced
Get trapped.
How to get to know about this trapped.
1. After few conversations asking for Pic, Phone no and doesn't talk about Nikah directly stay away from him.
2. He will always be curious about something.
3. Most of the time you will feel some kinda of pressure while talking.
How to get to know about this trapped.
1. After few conversations asking for Pic, Phone no and doesn't talk about Nikah directly stay away from him.
2. He will always be curious about something.
3. Most of the time you will feel some kinda of pressure while talking.
4. If you doesn't feel free or something you are doing against your will.
5. If he is talking about something specific and certainly.
6. If you don't feel motivated towards your life and akhirah.
7. If he doesn't talk about your betterment unbaisedly. Etc
5. If he is talking about something specific and certainly.
6. If you don't feel motivated towards your life and akhirah.
7. If he doesn't talk about your betterment unbaisedly. Etc
How to get away from it.
1. This is most harshest part of your life but this is all hormonal imbalance not love.
2. Get away with that guy for a month without telling him. If you have to uninstalled SM do it. Change your no, you have to be absolute contactless.
1. This is most harshest part of your life but this is all hormonal imbalance not love.
2. Get away with that guy for a month without telling him. If you have to uninstalled SM do it. Change your no, you have to be absolute contactless.
3. Talk about all this to someone who you think is unbiased and your best friend, sibling anyone you trust off, keeping in touch physically with them.
4. Most important part get down in sajood and speak up your heart to Allah and ask his guidance, while sleeping listen Quran
4. Most important part get down in sajood and speak up your heart to Allah and ask his guidance, while sleeping listen Quran
I can sent the link of most beautiful recitation, recite astagfirullah and last verse of surah fatiha while sleeping inshallah after a month you will get to know about this hormonal thing and you will be a free bird.
I have seen and feel the power of these emotions and you don't know how much damage it can create. Dont let the emotions rule you, be practicle and don't Giggle.
