I don’t know why, I’m sure it’s depicted in my chart but I can’t do superficial friendships. I have to have deep connections with my friends. Like we’re either besties or we’re acquainted. I can’t hang out with people I’m not close with like that’s just not fun to me.

And I met someone who only likes superficial friendships because they don’t like getting close out of fear of abandonment and I’m like well??? And so this friend feels like they’ve never had so much conflict in a friendship as they have with me.

So we discussed this and tried to find the middle ground. When they said they hadn’t had so much conflict before I wanted to say yeah cus other people don’t care and just want to use you. Which they admitted the so called friends only use them so they use them too.