tw // exposing @fetishofmarie for grooming a minor (me): a thread

i want to preface this by saying that i’ve been holding onto this for months. i never viewed the situation as predatory but looking back and after sharing this with my friends i now see how disturbing this relationship was.

me and jose started talking on july 31, 2020. i was just beginning to get active on stan twt and he was one of my first mutuals. this is a screenshot of me telling him my age and him being fine with me being a minor in our first conversation.

at the time of our encounter i was 16 years old, my birthday is august 15, 2003. he was 19 then. i told him i was 17 (very stupid i know but nonetheless still terrible). that same day we started talking sexual and he asked me to send him pics of myself

in these screenshots you can see that i did send him pictures. he then sent me things of himself as seen on the screenshots.

these are screenshots from our imessages. we had sexual conversations mostly on snap but occasionally on imessage as well. in the second screenshot you can see him say he’s “training for me”. context on next tweet

for context on that last one ^, we had a conversation on snapchat (not saved because he wouldn’t let me save stuff) about him flying me to out to his state and he’d buy us a hotel room so i could take his (boy) virginity.

him acknowledging that i’m a minor once again

there were times were he would hit me up just because he was h0rny, as shown in this screenshot. we did exchange nudes in this period of time.

this is really hard for me to post because i’ve never spoken up about this kind of thing. i’ve internalized it in the past and written it off as fine, but it’s not. even sitting here writing this i’m contemplating whether or not making this is the right decision.

after looking back on this situation i see now that i was taken advantage of. what i viewed as a “friend” helping me expand on this platform was predatory and wrong and it cannot be excused. do with this what you will.

it’s also been brought to my attention that he’s made transphobic comments. i don’t have screenshots but more to add i suppose