Sometimes I want to talk about things from the perspective of someone who never dated, but it's such a loaded topic since its used to signal piety when honestly I just really didn't like men because I logged into reddit as a 14 year old and their way of thinking traumatised me
I don't know how unhealthy this particular aversion was, but its gotten worse with twitter.

Seeing how some men speak in male dominated spaces is shocking when you're raised to believe they were the superior gender because of their apparent self control and wisdom.
Everywhere I look I see porn addiction lol

Now I view every man platonically, can't help it. I've never crushed because of it. I do this to actors too, I project the worst traits and assume they're all narcissistic. I only have respect for family men who love their wife/kids đŸ˜„
Worse part is i think I'm totally fine and I don't want to fix this because it means I am no longer intimidated by men, just very skeptical and cautious
I'm convinced this is the right way to be, although it's apparently maladjusted behaviour I have no intention on fixing it because my life worked out for me so far.
My friends are tired of me hijacking their threads and smearing their favourite celebs, should I seek help??
Mind you I'm still really a massive fan of people being in love, romance and all of that.

But whenever someone comes to me crushing on a man, you're about to hear the worst advice so don't do it. (My advice is always 'stop crushing on him')
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